Emma Flora Wheeler Hill
September 15, 1875 -- July 21, 1931
(Life Story compiled and written by Lila Hill Martin, a granddaughter)
"She was blessed with wisdom and great power in her labors as a leader
among the sisters of the Church. She was promised she would feel great
joy in doing good in nursing the sick, feeding the hungry, and that those
in her home would be blessed while she was away helping others."
Emma Flora Wheeler was born September 15, 11875, in Huntsville, Weber
County, Utah, the fifth child of a family of ten born to Levi Lincoln Wheeler
and Ellen Lavender.
On April 20, 1892, at the age of seventeen, she was married to David
Hill in Logan, Utah. The young couple settled in Trenton, Cache County,
Utah, where David worked for his brother, James Hill, farming. Their first
son, David Earl, was born there. Shortly after that they moved to Tilden,
Idaho, near Pingree. They engaged in placer mining with Emma's sister Martha
and her husband John Cornwall. Two more children, George and Laura, came
to bless this humble home.
Emma and David were always desirous of having their marriage and their
children sealed for eternity. They scrimped even more and made plans for
a trip to the Logan Temple. In preparation Emma made what new clothing
she was able to for her five and four year old boys and her one and a half
year old baby girl. She baked bread, washed and ironed clothing and she
and David packed the covered wagon with provisions of home bottled fruits
and vegetables, home dried corn, and apples, home made soap, pots and pans,
because they'd have to stop and cook their meals over a fire. What a happy
time this was. It was a long trip. Little boys and babies get very restless
in such cramped quarters. But they sang songs and played games and Emma's
heart was so full of joy.
They reached Logan and the beautiful sealing ordinance became a reality.
Nothing could daunt them now, even the fact that their money was not holding
out as they had hoped it would. But they were blessed as they stopped at
David's brother's farm and David worked the threshing machine to get enough
money to continue the trip home. As they traveled, the children were stricken
with Scarlet Fever. Emma had to nurse them as the wagon continued on. She
was an excellent nurse and she knew all of the things she could do to ease
the suffering, but it wasn't easy under such conditions, plus the fact
that it was cold and snowy most of the way home. They were so happy to
get home, the trip had lasted a month and it would soon be Christmas.
The following June another son, Howard, was born and in the fall they
moved to Rudy, Idaho, where they lived for three years and where their
fifth child, Harvey Ray, was born. He was a frail, sickly baby and for
the first six months of his life Emma didn't expect him to live, even tough
she gave him much special care, day and night.
The family moved to Pocatello and then to Blackfoot, ever in search
of a better living. They lived in Blackfoot for about seven years, the
longest time they'd spent without the hardship of moving. During this time
two more sons, Elmer and Clarence, were born and here Ray started to school.
Ray remembers his first day of school he came home and told his mother
that he did not like school, so she thought he was too young to go and
kept him home another year.
The next four moves were in less than three years. Then they lived in
the same place at Wapello for about fifteen years. It was here that their
last child, Merlin, was born, and the three oldest children were married.
It was here also they sent their son, Howard, on a mission for the Church.
This was another dream fulfilled for Emma and David. How eagerly they watched
for his letters and how proud they were of him.
Earl's wife died when their baby girl was just one week old and Earl
and baby Elvina came back to live with Emma and David. How they loved and
enjoyed another baby girl.
Emma was a good homemaker and a wonderful mother, who counseled her
children in the ways of righteousness, both by precept and example. She
served as Relief Society President, YWMIA President, and Primary President
and taught in all the organizations of the Church. She and David attended
church with their children. She would take the horse and single buggy to
do her Relief Society teaching, accompanied by her youngest child. She
was always very cautious to never leave the little child alone in the buggy.
She taught her sons to honor their wives. She taught her daughter many
homemaking arts and how to make do with very little.
She made huge batches of beautiful bread, sometimes every day, which
she baked in a big black "Home Comfort Range" fired by wood or coal. This
range had a warming oven on top, a water reservoir on one side which was
filled with cold water from the well, heated for the many baths. The water
had to be carried into the house for every use and then carried outside
after using.
She loved to bottle fruit and vegetables for winter use. The jars had
to be washed, then sterilized by boiling water in a big copper boiler on
the stove. The fruit must be ripe, but firm. She cooked them in an open
kettle until they were just right, then she would place each peach in the
jar with it's prettiest side out. Lined up on the shelf, they were a pretty
sight to behold, and so delicious to eat. She was a meticulous worker.
It gave her such a good feeling when she was able to have her cellar stocked
with food.
Once a week, before building the fire, the big stove had to be cleansed
of soot which would collect on the underside of the top lids and down the
side of and underneath the oven. She had a long-handled scraper with which
she scraped the long streams of soot, then out through a little door at
the bottom front of the stove. This was a messy job, and no matter how
carefully she worked, she would get black on her hands and arms and even
her face.
They moved several more times, finally to Gibson on the Fort Hall Indian
Reservation.
Emma was a gracious hostess who always welcomed visitors, friends, family,
neighbors, travelers on the road, and Indians - anyone who ever came by
or who David or the children invited in, were happily asked to share their
meal. Or if it wasn't family meal time, she'd stop whatever she was doing
and fix a nourishing meal at any time of the day or night. Merlin remembers
that when an Indian came and asked for a meal, she always prepared it and
took a chair out for him to sit on while he ate. Then when he had eaten
and gone, she'd give Merlin a cloth and have him wipe the chair off carefully
before taking it back into the house to be sure no lice or bugs were taken
in. She often gave milk and eggs to her Indian neighbors.
Sometimes the meals were bounteous. She would kill and clean and fry
a chicken, make beautiful feather light biscuits, open bottled fruit and
vegetables or in season cook fresh produce from the garden. Other times
the meal might be simple bread and milk and maybe cheese. Often there would
be someone come to stay overnight, and no matter how many came she'd happily
make up beds, some on the floor.
They raised their own pork and when she would render out the lard she
would use the cracklings which were left to make good laundry soap. She
also helped milk the cows when necessary.
She kept the milk and cream and home churned butter, etc. cool by storing
them in buckets or flour sacks and letting them down in the open well not
quite to the water line.
Sometimes they raised turkeys and she would kill one and pick the feathers
off and get it ready for Thanksgiving Dinner. How she loved to prepare
a nice dinner for her family.
For many, many years she did the laundry in a large round galvanized
tub with a scrub board on which to rub the clothes clean. Later she had
a washer that was turned by hand and the children helped turn it. The lights
were kerosene lamps.
One home they had was built of lumber, the walls and ceiling were covered
with a "factory cloth" which was stretched over the studding, then wall
papered. After it had been on for some time it became a little baggy. The
bare wood floors were hard to keep looking nice but she kept them clean
by scrubbing them with a scrub brush and her lye soap while on her hands
and knees. Later they were able to have linoleum, which made cleaning much
easier, and Emma thought it was so pretty. The cupboards she had could
be moved anyplace she wanted them.
She helped cook many meals for the threshing crew as they did the harvesting
around the area. Flies were a great problem and her boys and others were
kept busy waving willow branches over the table to keep the flies away
while the crew ate.
Her hands were always busy. When Laura was a girl, as she and her mother
walked to the store, Emma would knit socks, carrying the ball of yarn in
her apron pocket. They would also walk together to church, and Laura would
carry her precious shoes until they reached the church so they wouldn't
get dirty.
Times were very hard some years and on occasions married children and
their families came home and lived with Emma and David for a while. She
fixed up the granary as nice as possible for them to live in, sometimes
for a week, sometimes for years. Even a friend of one of the boys lived
there for a long time. Her doors were always open and she lovingly shared
what she had and did her best to help them. Her parents also made their
home with them during their last years and she gave them tender loving
care.
Emma was concerned about others and enjoyed doing things for them. She
was especially kind and patient with little children and encouraged them
in their play, even when she was ill. She was very good natured and pleasant,
seldom complained or became very upset. But when her children needed reprimanding,
she did it at the time. She never said "Wait 'till Dad comes home."
One hot summer Elmer, Clarence, Merlin and Elvina were stricken with
Typhoid Fever, which was so often a fatal disease. They were so very ill
for so long. The doctor came out from Blackfoot to check on them and gave
Emma instructions and encouragement. But it took many long weeks of back
breaking work, loving gentleness, and beseeching prayers, until they were
well again. Some years later the doctor told Merlin that Emma's constant
vigilance and loving care was the only reason he was alive.
One of her greatest joys was seeing her children married in the Temple.
This also gave her a pleasant vacation as they traveled to and from the
Temple, and gave her a chance to visit with and stay overnight in the homes
of some of her children and their families.
She was a pretty lady and loved to dress and look nice. She would curl
her beautiful hair with a curling iron heated in the chimney of the kerosene
lamp. She didn't have much, but she did have a string of glass beads which
she loved to wear.
Another thing she enjoyed was the neighborhood "club". Once a month
the ladies who lived a few miles apart would rotate meetings at their homes.
Meeting just for sociability, they would take their knitting or whatever
they were working on and visit and laugh and thoroughly enjoy one another's
company and refreshments.
Emma began to have trouble with a goiter, which grew fast, and her neck
became very large and uncomfortable. After enduring it for several years,
she had to have it removed to save her life. She was in the hospital at
Salt Lake City, away from her family, and it was a terrifying experience.
As she was lying there, very ill, she kept seeing a 'little thing' - then
it kept getting larger and larger and she saw that it was a message which
said, "They're praying for you at home." Her strength was renewed and after
some weeks she was able to return home. She recovered from the surgery,
but her health was poor from then on and she later developed Addison's
Disease. She kept weakening, and then Merlin was in charge of her care.
During this time she counseled Merlin to live the Gospel principles and
never to drink or smoke or take the Lord's name in vain, and always to
pay his tithing and do every job the Church asks of you. He was fifteen
years old and her baby, and she wanted to be reassured that he would live
a proper life. After several promptings from her, he did give his promise,
and kept it as she knew he would.
Emma grew weaker and weaker, and Merlin wasn't able to take care of
her properly, so David asked Clarence and Myrtle to come with their little
baby and live with them so Myrtle could do the nursing.
Addison's Disease is characterized by anemia, brownish-olive discoloration
of the skin, and severe prostration involving diminished functioning of
the adrenal glands.
It became impossible for her to eat and of course she became very thin.
She was too weak to visit very much during the last few weeks, but she
appreciated those who came and talked to her.
She passed away quietly and peacefully early in the morning of July
21, 1931. Myrtle was alone with her, as David, Clarence and Merlin were
doing the chores.
Her funeral was held in the Riverton Ward Church, and she was buried
in the Grove City Cemetery, Blackfoot, Idaho, near her parents.