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bullet CRIST

He was married to Velma ANDERSON in Ainsworth, Brown Co., Nebraska.


bullet DARNELL

He was married to Myrtle COLE in Mt. Clements, Michigan.


bullet Mary DAVIS died in 1695 in New Haven, CT. She has reference number 121.

She was married to Jeremiah OSBORN. Children were: Jonathan OSBORN, Jeremiah OSBORN, Mary OSBORN, Elizabeth OSBORN, Jeremiah OSBORN, Joanna OSBORN, Thomas OSBORN, Anna OSBORN, Elizabeth OSBORN, Joseph OSBORN, Rebecca OSBORN.


bullet Carol May DEHAVEN was born on 15 Apr 1932 in Valparaiso, IN. She has reference number 642. Parents: Don Forrest DEHAVEN and Iva May COLE.

She was married to Chester L. ANDERSON on 2 Apr 1955.(76) Carol DeHaven and Chester Anderson Repeat Vows
At an informal family ceremony performed in Michigan City, Carol DeHaven, daughter of Mrs. Iva DeHaven, was united in marriage to Chester L. Anderson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Chester Anderson of Santa Clara, Calif. on Saturday, April 2, at 4 p.m.
The bride wore a light blue ballerina length dress with white accessories and a pink rose bud corsage.
Attendants were Mrs. Ben Reling, friend of the bride, and Kenneth DeHaven, brother of the bride.
The bride is a graduate of Chesterton high school and is employed as a secretary by the Jannasch Insurance Agency of Gary.
The groom is a graduate of Lew Wallace high school, Gary, and Indiana University. He is a veteran of World War II and the Korean conflict having served six years in the Air Force attaining the rank of captain. He is employed as an adjuster with the Western Adjustment and Inspection Co.
A reception was held at the Lions building on Saturday evening. The couple are residing at 18 E. 8th Ave., Gary. Children were: Jon Leroy ANDERSON, Don Leonard ANDERSON, David Alan ANDERSON, Leslie Kay ANDERSON, Dennis Lee ANDERSON.


bullet Cooper McFadden DEHAVEN was born in Dec 1997 in Florida. He died on 16 Jul 1998 in Florida. He was ill with S.I.D.S. on 16 Jul 1998 in Florida. Parents: Eric Cooper DEHAVEN and Candace <?>.


bullet Don Forrest DEHAVEN was born on 13 Apr 1908 in Indianapolis, IN. He died on 12 Nov 1951 in Chesterton, IN. He has reference number 166.

He was married to Iva May COLE on 24 Mar 1929 in Woodville, Porter Co., IN. Children were: Don Laurence DEHAVEN, Carol May DEHAVEN, Kenneth Allen DEHAVEN, Martha Ann DEHAVEN.


bullet Don Laurence DEHAVEN was born on 21 Apr 1930 in Valparaiso, IN. He died on 25 Sep 1983 in Chesterton, IN. He has reference number 640. Parents: Don Forrest DEHAVEN and Iva May COLE.

He was married to Mary Josephine NEVERS on 2 Jun 1960. Children were: Eric Cooper DEHAVEN.


bullet Eric Cooper DEHAVEN was born on 29 Nov 1961. He has reference number 663. Parents: Don Laurence DEHAVEN and Mary Josephine NEVERS.

Children were: Cooper McFadden DEHAVEN.


bulletKenneth Allen DEHAVEN was born on 6 May 1934 in Valparaiso, IN. He died on 13 Jan 1986 in Burbank, CA. He has reference number 641. Parents: Don Forrest DEHAVEN and Iva May COLE.

He was married to Louise.


bullet Martha Ann DEHAVEN was born on 8 Nov 1939 in Gary, IN. She has reference number 643. Parents: Don Forrest DEHAVEN and Iva May COLE.

She was married to Ralph CARMEL M.D. on 20 Jul 1967 in New York, New York. Children were: Rina CARMEL, Abigail CARMEL.


bullet Anna Marie DETERING was born on 30 May 1806 in Heithoefen, Germany. She was a Housewife after 1823. She died on 4 Apr 1880 in South Euclid, OH.

She was married to Clamor Adolph ROLF on 30 Oct 1823 in Heithoefen, Germany. Children were: Gerhard ROLF, Clamor ROLF, Johann ROLF, Ernst ROLF, Maria ROLF, Henry Wilhelm ROLF, Clara ROLF, Anna ROLF.


bullet Abigail DILLINGHAM was born on 26 Feb 1697. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Abigail NYE.


bullet Alcott (Olcott) DILLINGHAM was born on 20 Dec 1827 in Ohio. He died on 21 Feb 1904 in Porter Co., IN. He was buried after 21 Feb 1904 in Dillingham Cemetery, Liberty Twp., Porter Co., Indiana. He has reference number 109. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.

He was married to Hannah A. HALE on 5 Jun 1848 in Porter Co., IN. Children were: Daniel DILLINGHAM, Carolyn (Carrie) DILLINGHAM, Louella DILLINGHAM, Isaac DILLINGHAM.


bullet Anna DILLINGHAM was born on 29 Sep 1815 in Ohio. She died on 13 Apr 1900. She has reference number 95. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.

She was married to Calvin CRAWFORD on 27 Jan 1839.

She was married to Dave LYON on 11 Feb 1837.


bullet Betsey Electa DILLINGHAM was born on 12 Dec 1820 in Ohio. She has reference number 102. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.

She was married to William WAUHOB on 29 Mar 1837 in Porter Co., IN.


bullet Comfort Anna DILLINGHAM was born on 19 Feb 1831 in Ohio. She has reference number 111. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.

She was married to William GARVEY on 23 Sep 1847 in Porter Co., IN.


bulletCornelius DILLINGHAM was born about 24 May 1724 in Middletown, RI. possibly born at sea. He died in Rhode Island. He has reference number 75. The Dillingham chronicler, Edward Dillingham, states that Cornelius was born at sea. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Elizabeth GOODSPEED.

Children were: Edward DILLINGHAM.


bulletDavid DILLINGHAM was born on 24 Nov 1813 in Ohio. He died on 13 Sep 1815 in Ohio. He has reference number 94. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.


bullet Deborah DILLINGHAM was born on 7 Jun 1716. She died on 13 May 1797. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Abigail NYE.

She was married to John BOURNE on 21 Nov 1734 in Sandwich, MA.


bullet Deborah DILLINGHAM was born on 21 Dec 1657 in Sandwich, MA. Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM and Hannah PERRY.

She was married to Daniel WING Jr in 1686 in Sandwich, Barnstaple, MA. She was sealed to spouse on 25 May 1985 in the Boise, Idaho LDS temple. Children were: Edward WING, Samuel WING, Jemima WING, Daniel WING, Zaccheus WING, Rebecca WING, Hannah WING.


bullet Dorcas DILLINGHAM was born on 31 Jan 1662 in Sandwich, MA. Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM and Hannah PERRY.


bulletEdward DILLINGHAM was born on 12 Jun 1595 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. He was born on 6 Dec 1595 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. He died in 1667 in Sandwich, MA. He died in Lynn, MA. He has reference number 66. He has reference number 1024. Shipped ot Lynn, Mass., on the WILLIAM AND FRANCIS in 1632 from Betteswell, Leicestershire;
Edward Dillingham birth date is different from my sources: I have 12 June of the same year. I also have a possible spelling of the spouse as "Drusilla," but Ursula is probably correct. We disagree on the date of the marriage with Edward saying it's 1626.
We also disagree on the place of death -- I have Lynn, MA, instead of Sandwich. Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM Rev. and Ursula (Drusilla ?) CARTER. Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM Rev..

He was married to Ursula (Drusilla ?) CARTER on 14 Feb 1614 in Bitteswell, Leicestershire, England. Children were: John DILLINGHAM, Elizabeth DILLINGHAM, Marie DILLINGHAM, Osea DILLINGHAM, Henry DILLINGHAM, Sarah DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM.


bullet Edward DILLINGHAM was born on 21 Apr 1665 in Sandwich, MA. He was born on 21 Nov 1665 in Sandwich, MA. He died on 29 Mar 1739 in Sandwich, MA. He has reference number 71. He has reference number 256. Edward Dillingham has 21 Nov. 1665 as the birth date
Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM and Hannah PERRY.

Children were: Hannah DILLINGHAM , Abigail DILLINGHAM, Simeon DILLINGHAM, Edward DILLINGHAM, Mary DILLINGHAM, Experience DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM, Deborah DILLINGHAM.


bulletEdward DILLINGHAM was born on 12 Mar 1703/4 in Sandwich, MA. He died in Sandwich, MA. He has reference number 73. Edward Dillingham has 1704 as the birth year and place of death in Maine. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Abigail NYE.

He was married to Elizabeth GOODSPEED on 10 Oct 1723. Children were: Cornelius DILLINGHAM, Sylvanus DILLINGHAM, Stephen DILLINGHAM, Remember DILLINGHAM, Ignatius DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM.


bullet Edward DILLINGHAM was born in 1570 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. Parents: William DILLINGHAM Rev.


bullet Edward DILLINGHAM was born on 2 Jan 1750 in Newport, RI. He died in 1850 in Providence, RI. He was Dillingham Naming Conventions after 1950 in England and USA. (77) How Dillinghams Named Their Sons
16 Jul 1994 Prepared by Edward Dillingham
The naming practices of the Dillingham family made a dramatic change in the fifth generation in this country. This may have been typical in New England.
In the first five generations there were 40 males, including the two immigrant men and their three sons. Of these 40, there were 12 Johns and 8 Edwards; no more than three of any other name. In the first four generations 13 Dillingham men had male issue; only one of these 13 failed to name a son either John or Edward - and maybe he would have, but he had only one son.
In the sixth generation there were 41 males, of whom three were named John and two Edward. No fifth generation father used both names. Biblical names had completely swamped family names. This change started earlier. In the fourth generation we had Jeremiah, Melatiah and Simeon; in the fifth generation Elisha, Jeremiah, Lemuel, Joshua and Simeon. But the sixth generation has Jeptha, Joseph, Jeremiah, Isaac, Lemuel, Joshua, Josiah and several others. Does such a change appear in other families?

1-- John Dillingham-117
2-- Edward Dillingham-190
1-- Edward DILLINGHAM-111 (1595-1667)
2-- Henry DILLINGHAM-113 (1627-1705)
3-- John DILLINGHAM-354 (1656-1733)
4-- John DILLINGHAM-719 (1695-1769)
5-- Elisha DILLINGHAM-711
6-- Jeptha DILLINGHAM-1442 (1741-1790)
5-- John DILLINGHAM-725 ( -1769)
6-- Joseph DILLINGHAM-737 (1765-1850)
5-- Henry DILLINGHAM-728 (1735-1797)
6-- Henry DILLINGHAM-1031 (1766)
5-- Jeremiah DILLINGHAM-729 (1736-1821)
6-- John DILLINGHAM-1028 (1762-1853)
6-- Jeremiah DILLINGHAM-1147 (1764-1820)
6-- Isaac DILLINGHAM-1148 ( -1815)
4-- Jeremiah DILLINGHAM-1501 (1696-1752)
4-- Melatiah DILLINGHAM Hon-357 (1700-1786)
5-- Lemuel DILLINGHAM-489 (1725)
6-- Lemuel DILLINGHAM Jr-1048 (1757-1845)
6-- Joshua DILLINGHAM-491 (1758-1820)
6-- Josiah DILLINGHAM-779 (1767-1819)
5-- Edward DILLINGHAM-1480 (1730)
6-- Samuel DILLINGHAM-1482 (1751)
6-- Malatia DILLINGHAM-1484 (1762)
6-- William DILLINGHAM-104 (1770-1832)
5-- Thomas DILLINGHAM-1410 (1741)
5-- Joshua DILLINGHAM-494 (1743)
6-- Stephen DILLINGHAM-496 (1774)
6-- Otis DILLINGHAM-500 (1777)
6-- Joshua DILLINGHAM-502 (1782)
5-- William DILLINGHAM-1412 (1747)
4-- Edward DILLINGHAM-1310 ( -1783)
5-- Benjamin DILLINGHAM-1312
3-- Edward DILLINGHAM-115 (1665-1739)
4-- Simeon DILLINGHAM-119 (1700-1773)
5-- Nathan DILLINGHAM-170 (1730-1755)
5-- John DILLINGHAM-122 (1736-1825)
6-- Nathan DILLINGHAM-180 (1759)
6-- Simeon DILLINGHAM-181 (1763)
6-- Branch DILLINGHAM-182 (1765-1813)
6-- John DILLINGHAM-184 (1770)
6-- Henry DILLINGHAM-186 (1775)
5-- Simeon DILLINGHAM Jr-173 (1741)
4-- Edward DILLINGHAM-166 (1704)
5-- Cornelius DILLINGHAM-848 (1724)
6-- Edward DILLINGHAM-1528 (1750-1850)
5-- Sylvanus DILLINGHAM-849 (1725)
5-- Stephen DILLINGHAM-851 (1727)
5-- Ignatius DILLINGHAM-359 (1732-1816)
6-- Stephen DILLINGHAM-745
6-- Edward DILLINGHAM-366 ( -1857)
6-- Joseph DILLINGHAM-361 (1776-1845)
6-- William DILLINGHAM-747 (1782-1832)
6-- William DILLINGHAM-1211 (1832-1853)
5-- John DILLINGHAM-852 (1738)
6-- Joseph DILLINGHAM-1298 (1765)
4-- John DILLINGHAM-120 (1710)
5-- Samuel DILLINGHAM-420 (1738)
5-- Edward DILLINGHAM-556 (1743-1828)
6-- Thomas DILLINGHAM-704 (1773)
6-- Zenas DILLINGHAM-706 (1774-1853)
6-- Asa DILLINGHAM-707 (1774)
6-- Lemuel DILLINGHAM-708 (1782)
6-- Jonathan DILLINGHAM-898 (1789)
5-- John DILLINGHAM-557 (1744)
6-- Zerriah DILLINGHAM-561 (1775)
6-- Achsah DILLINGHAM-562 (1777)
6-- Crocker DILLINGHAM-563 (1780)
6-- James DILLINGHAM-564 (1782)
6-- Ebenezer DILLINGHAM-566 (1786)
6-- Ezra DILLINGHAM-567 (1789)
2-- John DILLINGHAM-114 (1630-1715)
3-- John DILLINGHAM Jr-305 (1663-1746)
4-- John DILLINGHAM 3rd-310 (1701-1763)
5-- John DILLINGHAM Hon-319 (1753-1819)
6-- John DILLINGHAM 5th-321 (1774-1825)
6-- Isaac DILLINGHAM-324 (1776-1807)
6-- Freeman DILLINGHAM-322 (1797)
4-- Isaac DILLINGHAM-885 (1711)
4-- Edward DILLINGHAM-536 (1715-1715) He has reference number 77. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Edward is being presented here as the father of John Dillingham (late of Porter County, Indiana) despite evidence to the contrary. Edward's parentage is the contention of the local Dillingham family but is not convincingly supported. See further notes associated with John Dillingham.
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Captain of the sloop, BETSEY, in Providence.
One undocumented source lists his death as occurring in 1805. Since this tends to be a long-lived family I will include the 1850 date, making him 100 at death, as supported by Edward Dillingham of California. Parents: Cornelius DILLINGHAM and Sarah RYDER.

He was married to Sarah TILLINGHAST on 30 Jun 1793 in Providence, RI. Children were: William Tillinghast DILLINGHAM.

He was married to Hannah (Sukey) AMBROSE between 7 Sep 1772 and 1775. Children were: John DILLINGHAM.


bullet Elizabeth DILLINGHAM Parents: William DILLINGHAM Rev.


bulletElizabeth DILLINGHAM was christened on 2 Apr 1616 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Ursula (Drusilla ?) CARTER.


bullet Esther DILLINGHAM was born on 4 Sep 1825 in Ohio. She has reference number 106. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.

She was married to Nathan JOHNSON on 5 Jan 1845 in Porter Co., IN.


bullet Experience DILLINGHAM was born on 9 Mar 1707. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Abigail NYE.


bullet George DILLINGHAM Parents: William DILLINGHAM Rev.


bullet Gilbert DILLINGHAM was born on 24 Oct 1597 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM Rev..


bullet Gilbert DILLINGHAM Parents: William DILLINGHAM Rev.


bullet Hannah DILLINGHAM was born on 19 Mar 1819 in Ohio. She died on 1 Jan 1874 in Porter Co., IN. She has reference number 100. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.

She was married to John HANSFORD on 4 Apr 1844 in Valparaiso, Porter Co., IN. Children were: William HANSFORD, Eri HANSFORD Sr., Effie Jane HANSFORD, Ella B. HANSFORD, Emma HANSFORD, William HANSFORD, Jay L. HANSFORD, Jonah J. HANSFORD.


bullet Hannah DILLINGHAM was born on 12 Jul 1696 in Sandwich. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Abigail NYE.


bullet Henry DILLINGHAM was born on 13 Oct 1624 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. He was christened on 13 Oct 1624. He died on 26 Jul 1673 in Sandwich, MA. this is Edward Dillingham's death date -- mine says same month and day but in 1705. He has reference number 69. He has reference number 512. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Ursula (Drusilla ?) CARTER .

He was married to Hannah PERRY on 24 Jun 1652 in Sandwich. Children were: Mary DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM, Deborah DILLINGHAM, Dorcas DILLINGHAM, Edward DILLINGHAM.


bullet Henry DILLINGHAM Rev. was born in 1568 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. He died on 12 Apr 1625 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. He died on 4 Dec 1625. He has reference number 63. He has reference number 2048. He was elected as. Was Rector of Cottesbach Parish
Edward Dillingham has the date of death as 4 December. Parents: William DILLINGHAM. Parents: William DILLINGHAM Rev .

He was married to Margaret aftr 1595.

He was married to Ursula (Drusilla ?) CARTER aftr 1596 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. Children were: Edward DILLINGHAM.

He was married before 1592 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. Children were: John DILLINGHAM, Henry DILLINGHAM, Edward DILLINGHAM, Gilbert DILLINGHAM, Mary DILLINGHAM, Martha DILLINGHAM, Oseth DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM, Katherina DILLINGHAM.


bullet Henry DILLINGHAM was born in 1593 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM Rev..


bullet Ignatius DILLINGHAM was born on 16 Apr 1732 in Sandwich, MA. He died on 15 Sep 1816 in Falmouth, MA. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Elizabeth GOODSPEED.

He was married to Deborah GIFFORD in 1762. Children were: Remember DILLINGHAM, Content DILLINGHAM, Lydia DILLINGHAM, Stephen DILLINGHAM, Edward DILLINGHAM, Ruth DILLINGHAM, Joseph DILLINGHAM, William DILLINGHAM.

He was married to Hannah SWIFT after 1793. Children were: William DILLINGHAM, Susan Jane DILLINGHAM.


bullet John DILLINGHAM(35) was born on 2 Jul 1773 in New England.
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PLEASE READ THIS!!
There is presently no firm evidence that John Dillingham was legally named John Earl Dillingham, Jr.
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The parentage of John Dillingham is in question. He is presented here as the son of Edward only because this has been accepted by the local Dillingham family; however, no verifying sources are given and the logic of the circumstances within the Edward Dillingham family do not appear to support John as his son. Apparently, Edward lived his entire life in Rhode Island while John claimed to be from Massachusetts and is known to have spent his later youth in Connecticutt. In addition, Edward may not have been married yet by the year of John's birth.
The matter is being studied extensively and when the matter is proven one way or another it will be published here with supporting documentation.
Tim Cole,
5 December, 1998.
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An incident in his life in 1788 in at sea.(78) From "The Republic"
a weekly newspaper in Valparaiso, Indiana
Thursday, Oct 3, 1861
Decease of John Dillingham
AN INCIDENT IN HIS LIFE
Mr. Editor, -- Hearing of the recent death of old Mr. Dillingham, the oldest man of the county, and one of the earliest settlers, calls to mind an incident of his long and eventful life, which he related to me some twenty years ago, and which, two or three years ago I got him to repeat to me and I committed it to paper, thinking it would be interesting to the readers of The Republic in connection with his Obituary Notice, which his great age gave reason to expect in a few months or years. These were his words:
"About the year 1788, and when I was about 16 years old, I was a sailor on board a merchant ship, on a voyage from Boston to Portugal, for a cargo of wine. On our homeward bound passage, we had provided for only a twenty day's passage, and the storm was such that we were kept nearly forty days at sea; during the latter part of which time we were on very short allowance, and actually reduced to such an extremity as to seriously contemplate the necessity of casting lots which of our number should first be sacrificed for food to sustain the rest."
He resided Manchester, Connecticutt about 1793 in Manchester, Connecticutt. He resided Windsor, Ohio after 1796 in Windsor, Connecticut. He was Pages from Family Bible after 1828 in Porter Co., IN.(79) This is a copy of the Family Record from the Dillingham Family Bible. It is in the possession of Mr. Zane Phares of Valparaiso, Indiana. He is a direct descendant of John Dillingham, as am I. The Bible was given to him for safe keeping because no member of the Dillingham family showed responsible interest at the time. He intends to pass it along to the local genealogy library in the public library in Valparaiso. I've encouraged him to do so, although his intention may change. Inside the front cover there is a notation in old 19th century script: "Sold by Jas. A. Rinkus [sp] No. 19 Peck Slip New York price $2.50s." The published date is 1827.
Most of the entries are in the same handwriting, which is very neat and clearly legible until entries after the late 1850's, when someone else makes the entries, or the health and vigor on the original entrant becomes clearly diminished. I've made every effort to preserve the original spelling, grammar, and punctuation and made notations when it was not clear in the writing.
- J.T. Cole, February 24, 1995.

1st Page of the Family Record:
Mr. John Dillingham was married to Miss Clarissa Olcott July The 19th [14th?] of 1793.
Mr. John Dillingham married his second wife Miss Hannah Hiccox September The 27th 1809.
Mr. Henry Dillingham was married to Miss Amanda Page Dec. The 25th 1816.
Miss Fanny Dillingham was married to Mr. Amos Felt Oct. The 7th 1819.
Miss Sally Dillingham was married to Mr. Edward P. Cole June The 11th 1829.
Miss Anna Dillingham was married to Mr. Dave Lyon [?] February 11th 1837.
Miss Betsey Dillingham was married to William Wauhob March 29th 1837.
Miss Esther Dillingham was married to Nathan Johnson January 5th 1845.
Miss Anna Lyon married her second husband Calvin Crawford Aug. 27th 1839 [59?].
Mr. John Dillingham was married to Miss Emeline Carter Aug. 1840.
Miss Hannah Dillingham was married to John Hanford [sp] April 4th AD 1844.
Mr. King Dillingham was married to Hannah Garvey August 19th 1847.
Miss Comfort A. Dillingham was married to William Garvey [Garry?] Sept. 23 AD 1847.
Mr. Olcott Dillingham was married to Hannah Hale June 5th A.D. 1848.


2nd Page of the Family Record:
John Dillingham was born July The 2nd A.D. 1773.
Clarissa Olcott born December The 24th AD 1773.
Henry Dillingham born Jan. The 24th 1775 [-95].
Clarissa Dillingham was born Nov. The 13th 1797.
Betsey Dillingham born May The 27th 1800.
Fanny Dillingham born April The 17th 1803.
Sally Dillingham born Nov. The 8th 1804.
Polly Dillingham born May The 5th 1807.
Hannah Hiccox born July The 22th AD 1785.
Sally Dillingham born Sept. The 25th 1810.
John Dillingham born April The 26th 1812.
John and David Dillingham twins were born Nov. The 24th 1813.
Anna Dillingham born Sept. The 29th 1815.
John Dillingham born Aug. The 27th 1817.
Hannah Dillingham born March The 19th 1819.
Betsey Dillingham born Dec. The 12th 1820.
King Dillingham born Oct. The 1st 1823.
Esther and Lester Dillingham Twins were born Sept. The 4th AD 1825.
Olcott Dillingham born Dec. The 20th 1827.
Comfort Ana [sp] Dillingham born Feb. The 19th 1831.


3rd Page of the Family Record:
Sally Dillingham died Dec. The 30th 1805.
Mrs. Clarissa Dillingham died Apr. The 17th 1811.
Clarissa Dillingham died Jan. The 21st 1811.
Polly Dillingham died Sept. The 24th 1813.
John Dillingham died Oct. The 10th 1813.
John Dillingham died Jan The 24th 1814.
David Dillingham died Sept. The 13th 1815.
Betsey Dillingham died July The 30th 1818.
Lester Dillingham died oct. The 16th 1825.
Hannah Dillingham wife fo John Dillingham Died oct. 20th 1858 Aged 73 years two months
and 28 days.
John Dillingham died Sept. 20th 1867 [-61] aged 88 yrs 2 mo. and 18 days.
Hannah Hansford died Jan 1st 1874 aged 55 years 9 month 12 days.
King Dillingham died Aug. 18th 1899.
Comfort Ana [sp] Hanlin [sp] Died [no other entry].
Anna Crawford died April 13th 1900.
Olcott Dillingham Died Feb. 21st 1904.
Hannah Dillingham died April 29th 1910.

[no other entries, no other notations or markings of any kind in the Bible]
J. Timothy Cole
timcole@niia.net
Feb., 1995. He died on 20 Sep 1861 in Porter Co., IN. He was buried after 20 Sep 1861 in Dillingham Cemetery, Liberty Twp., Porter Co., Indiana. Epitaph:
"Dearest father thou hast left us,
Here thy loss we deeply feel;
But 'tis God who has bereft us,
He can all our sorrows heal."
Genealogical work from Marvin Phares after 1950 in Valparaiso, IN.(80)
Edward Dillingham is reported by Winthrop Alexander as a son of Melatiah Dillingham (R357 in these notes). Dudley makes no mention of this Edward.
He might be a son of Mary Curtis, Melatiah's first wife; she married in October 1723 and died in 1727; she had Lemuel in that time; she might also have had Edward, possibly dying at the birth of one of them.
An alternative is that Edward might be an unrecorded son of Phebe Hatch, Melatiah's second wife. She married him 18 Feb 1730 and died 31 Jan 1731; certainly this could be a childbirth death.
Edward certainly did not spring from Melatiah's third wife, Meriah Gilford. She married in 1734 and had recorded children in 1735, 1737, 1739, 1741, 1745, 1747, 1749 and 1757. The first vacant slot there is far too late for Edward, who was himself breeding by 1751. Therefore I place his birth between 1727 and 1731; clearly he was not born between those years but rather in one or the other.
I found the following on 30 June 1994 in a note by Dudley that I had previously overlooked.
Church Records of Hanover, Mass (19d)
"Feb 18,1730/31 Melatiah Dillingham and Phebe Hatch, both of Hanover, married", and "Born Dec 29,1730-31, Son of Melatiah and Phebe Dillingham."
The lack of a Christian name suggests that the child died, especially given that his mother died a month later, and Melatiah didn't marry again until 1734. The date of birth, however, supports the idea that this was the missing Edward Dillingham. Other entries in the same record (see below) also lack Christian names.
Edward is identified by Winthrop Alexander as the father of several Dillinghams, and (per Alexander) "circumstantial evidence places William in this family." This refers to William of Freeport, R104 in these notes, father of William and John Griffin, grandfather ofJohn Griffin.
What are the circumstances? Melatiah and Edward were blacksmiths; William and William Jr were blacksmiths. The dates are reasonable. William son of Ignatius has a different wife, and children; William son of John son of Simeon went to Granville, New York. William son of Malatiah is too old.
There is no indication in Alexander that Edward removed to Maine, but the Pilgrim Edward Doty Society states that "Edward and Melatiah, his father, were shipbuilders in Hanover, Mass., and in 1783, as members of the Friends Society, removed to Falmouth, Maine, then to Freeport."
Also from the Doty Society: "We have Marcy Doty ... had seven children including William, born ca.1770, d.1832 m 1st Hannah Griffin and 2nd m Abigail (______).
Church Records of Hanover, copied out by Dean Dudley.

Born
Dec 29,1730/31 Son of Melatiah and Phebe Dillingham
1731/32 May - child of John and Jael Dillingham
1733/34 March - child of John and Jael Dillingham
March 22,1734/35 dau of Melatiah and Meriah Dillingham
May, 1735/36 Child of John and Jael Dillingham
Oct 3, (prob 1737/38) Child of Melatiah and Meriah Dillingham
1737/38 child of John and Jael Dillingham.
Mar 17,1740/41 Son of Melatiah Dillingham

Hon Melatiah Dillingham b.1700 d.25 Jan 1786 Son of John(3), Henry(2), Edward(1) m.(1) 1723, Mary Curtis, (2) 1730, Phebe Hatch, (3) 1734 Meriah Gifford
Dean Dudley, in a letter to Frederic W Dillingham dated Sept 27,1894: "Melatiah Dillingham was born 1700, died 1st month, 25th day 1786 aged 86 years. His wife was Maria or Meliah in 1759 in Hanover. He was a blacksmith and Quaker. His father was John son of Edward and Abigail, a cordwainer."
From Edward Dillingham:
Dudley has this wrong: John son of Edward Dillingham and Abigail Nye was born in 1710, being their seventh child. Melatiah's father was John, Edward's brother, not his son. Edward (b.1665) and John were sons of Henry Dillingham and Hannah Perry. John married Sarah Bourne (b.1681). She had a younger brother named Melatiah, born in 1694. We have no other record of young Bourne, but possibly his sister copied the name.
[Dudley again]
Melatiah is also the father of Lemuel, with his first wife Mary Curtis. He may also be Maltiah, father of Joshua. [With his third wife he had: Lydia, Hannah, Content, Thomas, Joshua, Meribah, William, Anne, Phebe.]
From Dean Dudley's manuscript
From Friends Records, Pembroke, Massachusetts
Joshua Dillingham son of Maltiah of Hanover married Esther Rogers (page 32) Meltiah Dillingham deceased 25th of 1st month 1786 in the 86 year of his age (page 33 in Dudley ms)
Meliah Dillingham is a different person; he died 21st of 12th month 1784 in the 75th year of his age. (Dudley pg 33)
Letter in Dudley ms (pg 19e) from Charles Manson, Town Clerk of Scituate, dated Nov 24,1896:
"Malatiah Dillingham and Mary Curtis were married Oct 28th 1723."

From a list of Deeds, Plymouth Co. Registry (pasted into Dudley ms, pp 13-14)
Melatiah Dillingham of Hanover, blacksmith, bot of Thomas Tracy of Pembroke, a lot of land in Hanover, 9 April 1748.
From a letter from Dudley to Frederic W Dillingham dated Aug 17,1894: "In 1754 Melatiah and Edward were living in Hanover. A "Henry" was a private in the R.I. expedition in 1777, under Capt Amos Turner. "Several of the Hanover Dillinghams married into the Estes family, who were Quakers, says Barry. Joseph married Hannah Estes of New York state Sept 9,1810...."
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FROM: Grace V. Dillingham 05/19/94
SUBJECT: Melatiah the Gibeonite
I have found a biblical namesake for our ancestor in Nehemiah 3:7. He was one of those who repaired the wall of Jerusalem after the return from exile, working ,together with Jadon the Meronothite, on the section next to the Old Gate.
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Church Records of Hanover, copied out by Dean Dudley.
Born
Dec 29,1730/31 Son of Melatiah and Phebe Dillingham
1731/32 May - child of John and Jael Dillingham
1733/34 March - child of John and Jael Dillingham
March 22,1734/35 dau of Melatiah and Meriah Dillingham
May, 1735/36 Child of John and Jael Dillingham
Oct 3, (prob 1737/38) Child of Melatiah and Meriah Dillingham
1737/38 child of John and Jael Dillingham.
Mar 17,1740/41 Son of Melatiah Dillingham

These records, all free of names and some clearly people who survived, show that the 1730/31 son of Melatiah may have been a survivor, and so may have been Edward. The dates above can readily be associated with people:
Dec 29/1730/31 Edward, son of Melatiah and Phebe
Mar 22,1734/35 Lydia
Oct 3,1737/38 Hannah
Mar 17,1740/41 Thomas
This leaves Content, b.1739, unrecorded, as well as the one earlier (son of Mary Curtis) and several later. He has reference number 27. He signed a will.
The following story was published as one of a series of columns concerning local history, legends, and lore. They appeared in the 1950's and were written or compiled by William O. Wallace who lived in Liberty Township until he died in 1962. He always maintained that some were true, some partially true and some legendary. This story has little truth associated with it. Please read the comments at the end.
Dillinghams come to Porter County, by The Stroller
Schuyler Tanner walked miles and miles up and down the cuts made by the gigantic steam shovels and grading machines when Ridge Road was being converted into a national highway -- just to be sure the combined Dillingham memory was right. They all said Grandma Hannah had told them her husband, John, had been buried far north of the old trail. But Tanner wanted to be sure those machines didn't disturb the old settler, or, if they did, that his weary old bones would be given a better resting place with the other departed Dillinghams.
Tanner used to tell interesting tales of the first Dillinghams. He said John, Hannah and Olcott came from Huron, Ohio, in October 1837. Back in Ohio they had been sort of lake dwellers, living close to Lake Huron. So they, in coming west, naturally came by boat. They came on a little sailing vessel called "The Little Westerner," which was equipped with an auxilliary steam engine. Before they arrived, however, they began to wish that they had tried the overland route, according to the tale. Storms beset them almost from the first. The trip occupied 29 miserable days. The Little Westerner was only a 60-ton ship and was overloaded.
Seek Fabulous Farms
The ship was filled with "lookers" -- men who, for the most part, wanted to get out into the woods after they got into Lake Michigan, to look for one of those fabulous farms for themselves, at $1.50 an acre. The there were some who excitedly talked about copper from the Keweenaw Peninsula. The ship was stacked to capacity with more than 100 passengers and their gear. There were plows, wagon bodies, pots, children and bedding all piled high on deck. Wagon wheels were lashed to the masts.
Now that the Indians were supposed to be cleared from the country, the great land boom was at its height. And the headquarters was at the little fort on the Chicago River, where it was said, more than 20, 000 people came each season. Their engine-equipped sailing vessel was rough and everyone was seasick -- all but Olcott, who was enjoying the excitement. As they came down the Michigan shore a heavy fog set in. Then soon heavy rains came.
Pelted by Sleet
At Muskegon there was some talk of unloading and pushing back before the lake froze over. Ice was already forming in the lake, but the captain had a big cod shipment for Michigan City. When they came into sight of St. Joseph the storm turned into a whipping sleet storm. Just before they reached Michigan City another whirling, icy storm whistled in from Chicago and struck the taut canvas with devastating fury. They were navigating close to the shore, when a warm air mass from somewhere collided with the cold mass just over their heads -- and then came the bad news.
The ship would discharge its entire cargo at Michigan City. Chicago was out of the question. "But," said the captain, "it's only a little ways to Chicago." It took 10 days to get straightened out and to get the outfit together. By dark, on the evening of Nov. 2, 1837, they arrived in what is now Porter County.
Camp at Coffee Creek
John Dillingham said, "We camped at a place called Thomas Mill or Big Sandy Creek or, as it was then being laughingly called, 'Coffee Creek.' There was a very nice gentleman there named Morgan, and he made us feel at home. The next day we, at his suggestion, went out to look at the land thereabouts -- and did not go on to southern Illinois as we had intended."
And Hannah added, "Pa and Olcott thought this country was good enough, so we stayed."
John was buried in a canoe for a coffin. It made a right nice casket, with flowers and evergreens placed on top. He was put in the ground on his own land by the clump of trees at the bend of the creek.

1.) John Dillingham's first daughter by his second wife Hannah had married Edward Cole back in Huron COUNTY, Ohio, not Huron, Ohio, where they lived by the shores of Lake ERIE, not Huron, if you call 20 - 30 miles away "by the shores." It was Edward Cole who wanted to move west with his young family, Sally and his two boys, David and John, 3 years old and 3 months old. Dillingham brought almost his entire second family with him -- 8 children from 21 to 5 years old. Olcott, the second youngest, was around 8 or 9 and was probably not being consulted about family decisions yet. And of course, this was a year earlier, almost two years earlier, than the above record claims and was obtained from recorded deeds and other records. In fact, the intention was to move to this area of Porter County in the first place; Edward Cole had scouted the territory for the previous two years looking for suitable and affordable land for both families.
2.) The idea that they took a boat from Lake Erie, through Lake Huron, and down the shores of Lake Michigan to go to Chicago is the most preposterous story I've ever heard of. The White River canal had been opened from their area of Ohio and went well into Indiana to the head streams of the Wabash River. If anything, they took a canal barge as far as they could and then went overland, possibly up through Michigan City, which was established at that time, although a clear and protected trail went through to present day Westville, Indiana, through the area now called LaPorte, or present day Door Prairie. It would be silly to go ten miles out of the way when a good path (an established buffalo and Indian trail existed. And it's possible that they ventured into present day Chesterton and stayed with Jesse Morgan. But probably only to be neighborly.
3.) I can't imagine what the ravings are about U.S. Highway 6 (Ridge Road). The Dillingham cemetery is about half a mile SOUTH of this road, which was put through in the first quarter of the 20th century. And John most likely was not buried in a canoe, nor by a "bend in the stream." His grave site is clearly visible on what was thought to be the highest point in Porter County, a long, long way from any moving water. Edward Cole was buried on what was thought to be the second highest point in Porter County, about 3/4ths of a mile north of John. If anything, Tanner's tale sounds more like the story of Joseph Bailly, and the lake storm that almost swamped their boat sounds suspiciously close to that of an actual steamship wreck that happened far later and without the benefit of John Dillingham's presence. I want to think that Schuyler Tanner got his tales mixed up while imbibing some of John's famous home-made whiskey.
-- Tim Cole 1997
Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Hannah (Sukey) AMBROSE.

He was married to Hannah HICCOX on 27 Sep 1809 in Huron Co., OH. Children were: Sally DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM, David DILLINGHAM, Anna DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM, Hannah DILLINGHAM, Betsey Electa DILLINGHAM, King DILLINGHAM, Esther DILLINGHAM, Lester DILLINGHAM, Alcott (Olcott) DILLINGHAM, Comfort Anna DILLINGHAM.

He was married to Clarissa OLCOTT on 14 Jul 1793 in Manchester, Connecticutt. Children were: Henry (Harry?) DILLINGHAM, Clarissa DILLINGHAM, Betsey DILLINGHAM, Fanny DILLINGHAM, Sally DILLINGHAM, Polly DILLINGHAM.


bullet John DILLINGHAM has reference number 68. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Ursula (Drusilla ?) CARTER.


bullet John DILLINGHAM was born on 26 Apr 1812 in Ohio. He died on 10 Oct 1813. He has reference number 92. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.


bullet John DILLINGHAM was born on 24 Nov 1813 in Ohio. He died on 24 Jan 1814 in Ohio. He has reference number 93. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.


bullet John DILLINGHAM was born on 27 Aug 1817 in Ohio. He has reference number 98. Parents: John DILLINGHAM and Hannah HICCOX.

He was married to Electa M. KETCHUM on 14 Jan 1849.

He was married to Emeline CARTER on 7 Jun 1840 in Porter Co., IN. Children were: Martha J. DILLINGHAM.


bullet John DILLINGHAM was born in 1630 in Bitteswell, Leicestershire, England. He died on 21 May 1715 in West Brewster, MA. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Ursula (Drusilla ?) CARTER.

He was married to Elizabeth FEAKE on 24 Mar 1650. Children were: John DILLINGHAM Jr, Hannah DILLINGHAM, Rebecca DILLINGHAM, Sarah DILLINGHAM.


bullet John DILLINGHAM was born on 13 Jul 1606 in England. He died in 1636 in Boston, MA. Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM Rev..

Children were: Edward DILLINGHAM, Sarah DILLINGHAM.


bulletJohn DILLINGHAM was born on 14 Nov 1710 in Sandwich. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Abigail NYE.

Children were: Samuel DILLINGHAM, Abigail DILLINGHAM, Edward DILLINGHAM, John DILLINGHAM.


bulletJohn DILLINGHAM was born in 1566 in Cottesbach, Leicestershire, England. Parents: William DILLINGHAM Rev.


bullet John DILLINGHAM was born on 21 Feb 1656. He died in 1733. Parents: Henry DILLINGHAM and Hannah PERRY.

He was married to Sarah BOURNE before 1695 in Sandwich. Children were: John DILLINGHAM, Jeremiah DILLINGHAM, Melatiah DILLINGHAM Hon, Edward DILLINGHAM.


bullet John DILLINGHAM was born on 11 Jun 1738. Parents: Edward DILLINGHAM and Elizabeth GOODSPEED.

He was married to Ruth GIFFORD on 3 Mar 1763. Children were: Joseph DILLINGHAM, Elizabeth DILLINGHAM.

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