Fannie Coles Nottingham of Culpeper, Va. They had a happy and full life together as co-workers for fifty-four years.
It is very fitting that the Board of {paper torn}tees of the Virginia Conference Or{paper torn}anage should honor him by erecting {paper torn} tablet of bronze, the material is ever-{paper torn}sting and it will stand to remind {paper torn}ture
generations of the man who so faithfully served his day and generation,
the influence of his service will be felt by generations to come.
"BUT WHY NOT, MOTHER? HORSES DO!"
A Study in the Finer Instincts.
(Editorial in Michigan Christian Advocate.)
It was a Michigan preacher's kid, a real "P. K." who spoke the
words. His years numbered four, but he had good vision and for
the first time watched the horses drink from the public drinking trough
that looked to him like a big bath tub.
That night when his mother gave him his bath, he started in by taking a good long drink from his tub.
Chided by his mother, he countered with the words, "But why not, Mother? Horses do!"
That's a good story, because it is packed full of real philosophy and
thought promoters. That is really the problem of life, the
development of the finer instincts that help boys to become true
Christian gentlemen and not horses or hogs.
On the Train.
The next day, on the train, we thought of those words. A woman,
fat and forty, was sitting with an old lady and talking rather
loudly. Presently she lighted a cigarette and smoked vigorously,
puffing the smoke into the old lady's face and making quite a picture
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for the memory. Forty, and yet living on the philosophy of the boy of four.
"But why not, Mother? Horses do!"
A Hotel Party.
One of our itinerant friends reports being at the hotel in Battle Creek
the night of a recent convention of veterans. It was a night of
carousing that was never equalled in the saloon days and in the room
next to his it continued until eight the next morning when the bunch
was too drunk to peep. Drunken women in the lobby, drunken women
in the hallways, "a night of liquid fun for them," literally soused.
"But why not, Mother? Horses do!"
Low Levels.
Very few of us realize the low levels on which thousands of people
live. The tragedy of living like horses is a double tragedy when
it affects youth.
Dr. S. M. Shoemaker, Jr., in a recent sermon in Calvary Episcopal
Church, quoted from a letter written by a young woman of twenty-two who
had found only bitterness on the low level:
"Our father who is in heaven . . . is dead! . . . I haven't a God, I
haven't a job, and I haven't a single pink-ruffled ideal . . . There is
nothing left but sex . . . Beneath our wise-cracking cynicism lies . .
. desolation of doubt as to life's value . . . We are scoffers,
drunkards and wastrels . . . We have little to live for, because we
have found nothing we would die for . . . We must have something in
which to believe, something in which to pour out our lives . . . "
Yet, in the beginning, we have no doubt but that this same girl started out on this low level with those words:
"But why not, Mother? Horses do!"
High Schoolers.
At a recent high school party in Michigan, in a supposedly high class
community, the drinking was only equalled by the damage to windows and
furnishings from flying bottles. It
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was one grand and glorious night of more or less liquid fun! The couples grew more amorous with each drink. Whoopee!
"But why not, Mother? Horses do!"
Sometimes this "kid" question is asked seriously by adults who are
living on the horse level. One such young woman, who cannot quite
satisfy her conscience, writes Ruth Alden, in the Free Press:
"I have found myself part of a crowd of young people who are quite
prosperous, in fact, one of the boys I date at least once a week is
considered very well-to-do, and consequently we go to the more
fashionable places.
"There is one club in particular which was open all winter. One
could not find more refinement anywhere. There is never any
rowdyism. People there speak well, are polite, refined and of
good professional and business standing here in the community.
There is a bar, an orchestra and small dance floor. I have always
felt that I was being a perfect lady while there and never felt I was
in a disreputable place. Frankly, we usually go there after a
movie, or before dinner, for cocktails. I feel that were I to
say, 'No, I do not approve,' I would soon be dropped from the crowd and
left to myself. Naturally, I don't want that.
"I realize I have a job to hold and consequently, if for no other
reason than that, I never drink too much. Besides, intoxication
is thought really quite stupid and old-fashioned by the so-called
'fashionable drinkers.' I think I have a good reputation and am
usually invited to the most important and nicest places and parties.
"I smoke because I enjoy it. I have lots of dates -- enough so that I can pick my company.
"Maybe I am a bad girl. What do
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<< The Family Circle >>
HOME.
Lena B. Ellingwood.
Mollie Gray had been on a visit to her friend Margaret Dane, who lived
in a lively manufacturing city. Now she was on her way
home. As the train pulled into the home station, Mollie hurriedly
gathered up her belongings, and was the first one to descend the car
steps.
Would Father be there to meet her? Yes, there they were, all the
dear home folks, Father, Mother, and Carl. Even little Dannie,
her pet dog, was on hand, frantically wagging his tail and straining at
his leash.
Mollie made a dash for them, as delighted to see them as if she had been away a month instead of over the weekend.
"Glad to be back, Daughter?" asked Mr. Gray.
"Glad as glad can be!" answered Mollie with a beaming smile.
All the way home in the car she chattered, hardly giving any one else a
chance to speak. But at the farmhouse once more, Mollie looked
about her with critical eyes.
Was the living-room rug really as shabby as that? She didn't
remember to have noticed it before. And Father's easy
chair! Why, it looked positively disgraceful.
"I left supper all cooked, before we started for the station," said
Mrs. Gray "and it {will take only a few min}utes to put it on the
table, so hurry and get yourself ready, dear. I put some fresh
water in your pitcher."
Mollie ran upstairs to her room, and as she washed her hands and combed
her hair thought longingly of the finely appointed bathroom at the
Deane house.
The supper was excellent, with scalloped oysters as a special treat for
her home-coming. The supper table was neat and attractive, set in
a corner of the roomy farm kitchen.
It was all very pleasant, yet -- the Deanes had dinner at night, their
dining room was all that a dining room should be, Mollie thought, and
there was a maid to wait on the table.
Margaret, who had visited Mollie several times at the farm, always
seemed to enjoy the place, but now Mollie worried herself by thinking
it might be only politeness on Margaret's part.
For the next few days Mollie looked for blemishes and shabbiness.
Not a crack in the wall-paper or a worn spot in paint or upholstering
escaped her eye. She said nothing about it, but described the
perfections of the Deane home in glowing colors.
"What's the matter with our own home?" burst out Carl, interrupting his
sister as they sat on the piazza steps one evening. "From the way
you talk,
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any one would think the place wasn't fit to live in!"
"Well, really, Carl," said Mollie, flushing a little, "you can't deny that it's shabby -- in spots! And --"
"It's a regular home -- that's what it is!" said Carl. "I
wouldn't live in a grand, shiny place where I didn't dare to move for
fear I'd spoil something, I can tell you!"
Carl rose from the steps and went off upstairs to bed.
Mollie listened a while to the mournful plaint of a hidden
whippoorwill, then went inside. She paused at the door of the
living room where Mother was reading aloud to Father, to say good-night.
Mollie went up to her room, dissatisfied with everything -- home, Carl,
herself. Had she really been snobbish and unpleasant, as Carl had
implied? She got into bed, and lay there listening to the
whippoorwill.
It seemed to Mollie that she had been asleep but a few minutes, though
it was really almost morning, when she was roused by a loud pounding on
the door below her window.
A voice called out that terrifying cry of "Fire, fire, fire!"
Mollie listened, half dazed with the sudden waking and the terror of it.
The telephone was ringing.
She heard Carl go clattering down the stairs.
Mother {was answering the telephone.}
Then Father's voice. The outside door banged.
Mollie sat up. There was no red glare, no smell of smoke.
But the house was on fire, she thought sickeningly -- oh, yes!
Fire, fire!
She sprang out of bed and began dressing hurriedly.
She heard the car start. Father meant to save that, at any rate,
it seemed. But what about the safe, his desk, the house
furnishings? Strange everything was so still!
Mollie ran down the stairs, calling, "Mother, Mother!"
"Yes, dear!" answered Mother from the kitchen. "Come here, and
look from the west window. The Carters' house is all afire.
I'm so sorry for them -- and with all those children! Father and
Carl have gone over. I told them to bring the whole family
here. We'll make room for them, somehow."
Mrs. Gray had started a fire, and soon had an early breakfast cooking for whoever might come.
Mollie looked from the window to where, a mile away, the leaping flames
from the Carter house rose lurid and fearsome. They could never
save it. With all that fire, the house must be nearly gone
already.
Gray dawn was beginning to break.
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Mother came and stood by the window, slipping her arm around Mollie.
Mollie turned suddenly and laid her head against Mother's comforting shoulder.
"Poor things," said Mollie, wipin{paper torn} away starting
tears, "to see their home going like that! And I thought it was
ours burning! Oh, Mother! since I went to visit Margaret,
I've been -- I didn't say anything to you, but -- I've been ashamed of
our home, Mother." Mollie's voice was low. "But now, after
I thought it was burning, I know how I love it -- every last speck of
it. Why, it's it's home, Mother!"
"Yes, dear," said Mrs. Gray understandingly, "I saw how you felt, but I
knew your good sense would make you see things in the right way after a
little. I hear a car -- they're coming, dear. Now, help me
all you can!"
NATURE.
Helen Bruce Moss.
The flute-like song of the birds,
The tattoo of a partridge drumming;
The gentle whir of the bees,
And the smallest bird's dull humming;
The rising light of the sun
O'er pasture, hill, and brook;
The delicate fragrance of flowers,
And a fern in a stone wall's nook;
The velvety green of the moss,
And the shining crystal dew;
The beaded splendor of cobwebs,
And the summer sky's bright blue;
The many colorful flowers
That grace the budding wood;
And the long and moving shadows
Where the old oak tree stood;
The {paper torn} butterfly,
And the {s}queaking, wee field-mice --
These wonders wrought by God
Make Nature's paradise.
CHILDREN'S SAYINGS.
Grandma sent small Grace to the doctor's office for a box of
pellets. When she delivered the box to Grandma she said, "The
distractions are inside."
Choir Boy: "What made you give up singing in the choir?"
Ex-Choir Boy: "I was absent one Sunday, and some one asked if the organ was mended."
-- Dragon.
A little boy was challenged by a young friend with these words: "Listen to your dad snoring."
Then came the answer: "Dad is not snoring; he is dreaming about a dog, and the dog is growling."
-- Ex.
The Groom: "You can't imagine how nervous I was when I proposed to you."
The Bride: "You can't imagine how nervous I was until you did."
One Guy: "Did you mark that place where the fishing was so good?"
Guy Two: "Yes, I put an X on the side of the boat."
First Guy: "That's silly. What if we should get another boat?"
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