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May 2006:  A Journey of Memories


What an amazing three weeks! Because our granddaughter Jennifer was graduating from high school, we needed to be in eastern Ohio the 27th of May. We had a number of options, among which was to simply fly in the day before, and home the day after. When I was working, that was often the only viable option. But this time I wanted to do a driving trip that would allow other things along the way. It started out to be a simple matter of moving through time and space. But as you’ll soon see, it quickly became an incredible trip down memory lane.

 

Shortly before the trip actually took place, Fran’s niece and husband decided to move to Colorado Springs, Colorado. We volunteered to keep their little two year old, deliver him to Springs two weeks later, and haul the remainder of their household goods that space required them to store until a later date.

 

So we left Phoenix the morning of May 14th, with me driving a rental truck, and Fran following behind in our car. Charlie rode with me in the truck. We were able to disable the passenger air bag, so he was treated to riding in the front seat where he could see and comment on the passing scenery. He’ll never be content to ride in the back seat of a car again, and it was so much fun to see the passing scenery from a two year old perspective!

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We delivered him to his mommy and daddy on the afternoon of the 15th, and drove on to Denver that night after returning the rental truck. We stayed in what must be nearly the oldest Super 8 motel in the chain. It was old when I moved to the Denver area in 1973. Tuesday morning the 16th, I left Fran at the Denver airport, so she could fly back to take care of some of her consulting business in the Washington area, and I continued the drive eastward. I took some pictures of the Rocky Mountains, but the pollution is so bad, it’s really hard to see the mountains in the picture above.

 

I arrived in Des Moines, Iowa that night, then spent the 17th, with our friends from our church in Phoenix. I attended the high school graduation of their grandson, Jonathan, then had dinner with the family. I tried to see an old high school classmate while I was there, but she couldn’t free up the time.

 

I spent the 18th moving further east. Interstate 80 on the south side of Chicago is undergoing a major rebuilding effort over a distance of about 15 miles. The traffic jam entering the area was about 5 miles before the construction zone, and there were no posted suggestions for avoiding the area. To add insult to injury, they have a toll booth set up right at the beginning of the construction area and charge you fifty cents for the privilege of driving through the mess. If you’re going that way any time in the next year, be sure to find an alternate route.

On the 19th I awoke in Findlay, Ohio. I spent about 45 minutes in a steady rain trying to find my son Roy’s grave. It had been a long time since my last visit, and everything looked different, yet like I remembered it. Time seems to cloud some of our perspectives.

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After that visit, I continued on to the college I attended for the 1961-62 school year. Findlay College has become a University, and the four buildings I remembered now cover many city blocks. Despite only attending one year, I was welcomed like a returning graduate, and given a very nice tour.

 

After driving around to see some other places I remembered, I moved on to Sandusky, Ohio, another city in which I lived for a number of years, to again see places I remembered, some fondly, and others not so fondly. After collecting Fran at the Cleveland airport, we drove on to Brookville, PA for more memories.

 

On Saturday, the 20th we drove the 10 miles from Brookville south to Shannondale, and my father’s Miller ancestral home. We visited graves of my parents and grandparents, and saw the headstone we set for ourselves after our last visit. We then spent several hours with my cousin, Lloyd and Jeanne, in the home in which my father was raised.

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Upon leaving their place we drove the 10 miles or so across country to my mother’s ancestral home near the village of Eddyville. You can’t find Eddyville on maps anymore, as there’s not much left. I was told a number of years ago the farmhouse where my mother and I were both born had burned. On a whim I drove up the lane, and lo and behold, there it was, just like I remember it. The current owner is Doctor Frank from near Latrobe, PA. He bought the property about nine years ago, in deplorable condition. Everyone advised him to level the house and start over. Thankfully, he didn’t take the advice. The restoration is a work in progress, and he took us all through the house from basement to attic, then to the one surviving out building. He’s done a beautiful job, retaining the old wooden interior panels where possible (instead of lath and plaster as was commonly done in the 1880s). Oh, the memories.

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On Sunday, we drove back to Eddyville to visit St. Mark’s Lutheran Church, which was the ancestral church for my mother’s Smith family. This church cornerstone was dated 1900. The congregation was established in 1856. We tried to take some pictures of the interior, but it was too bright with light coming from outside, so we can’t show you the beauty of this old country church except for the one surviving chandelier, which was fueled by kerosene. You can see it is beautiful.

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We also met this family. We discovered the two sons are about fourth generation cousins of mine, and are still members of St. Marks.

That afternoon we drove to Franklin, where we stayed for several days. We had breakfast with two of my high school classmates, and lunch with another. We spent an afternoon with my brother, his wife and daughter, and had dinner out in a really nice little country place. I made a brief visit to the Venango County Historical Society on Tuesday. We also visited with Carl, who has been my friend since 1952. I guess that makes him my oldest friend in the world, along with his sister, since we were in grade school at the time.

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On Wednesday we drove to Carrollton, Ohio. We spent part of that day with daughter Jeanne and family, then Thursday with son Vern and family.

 

On Friday the 26th we drove north to a community near Youngstown to visit with a group of seventh generation Plyler cousins, all of whom have an active interest in Plyler genealogy. We learned much. We aren’t operating in a vacuum in our family research as we thought for so long.

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Saturday, the 27th came. This graduation was the reason for the whole trip. Jeanne has always home schooled her children, and Jennifer as the oldest is the first to graduate. Jeanne is part of a group of like minded parents who have a church based cooperative, so there were eight young men and women taking part in the ceremony. It was a good day to visit with old friends and to meet new.

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On Sunday we drove back to the east side of Pittsburgh to visit with Vic and Karryl, friends from my Boulder, Colorado days almost 35 years ago. It was two days with no agenda more than relaxing and chatting. It made a wonderful break in the sometimes harried pace we maintained for much of the trip.

 

Tuesday we drove to Casey, Illinois, where Ray and Mary, friends from college days in Findlay, live. Another wonderful visit. Ray is retired from driving truck. A number of years ago he became interested in the bio-fuels alternative energy concept. For several years he fueled his semi with recycled vegetable oil from restaurant deep fryers, some of which he produced himself. His dream in retirement is to make this alternative fuel source a realistic option for the trucking industry. But the state of Illinois and the Federal government want to tax alternate fuels the same as petroleum based diesel fuel, thus taking away any advantage to the user, and making it difficult for Ray and Mary to sell the concept to other than serious environmentalists. Ray shared his toy with us. He has a 1924 Model T. The picture below is a bit dark, but hopefully you get the idea.

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On Wednesday, we drove on to Ft. Leavenworth, Kansas, where a young friend of ours in a Major in the U.S. Army. Wayne and Kathy live on the base in a house designated as a historical site. Absolutely beautiful. This fort was established in 1835, and many of the buildings date from the years before the Civil War, up to the turn of the 19th Century. It was a nice visit to see how their family is growing. We went to dinner in a local restaurant. It was an old place that for many years was a bar with about 16-20 tables specializing in good food. Because it was primarily a bar, smoking was always thought to be a necessity. But this winter the owners were finally persuaded that their business would not be hurt by converting to a non-smoking establishment. Imagine the reality - the non-smoking bar is more popular than ever. On a weeknight it was difficult for patrons arriving after we did to find an empty table. Sort of makes a lie of the smoking advocates’ position.

 

Well, the fun and visiting was over. Thursday and Friday were just driving days, with Phoenix and home our objective. We have piles of laundry to do, and I mowed the lawn early before our Summer heat became a problem.


Some impressions:


I drove a little over 5,600 miles in a Ford Crown Victoria. Most of the time my highway speeds were between 70 and 80. Despite those speeds, I averaged a little over 23 MPG for the entire trip. I couldn’t have done much better in a small economy car, and we rode in relative comfort all the way.


As we left St. Louis on Wednesday morning, we saw approximately 15-20 state and county police cars on the east bound side of the highway operating an apparent speed control operation. Isn’t this a major bit of overkill? Really, Missouri, if you have that many police officers and cars to devote to speed control, I think you need to have a hard look at how you are spending the taxpayers’ money.

 

The budget hotel industry is hardly budget based any more. The so called free breakfast is hardly breakfast, and certainly not worth paying extra to have. In one Super 8, the ‘juice’ was Sunny D, and the muffins and donuts were universally dry and stale. Many Super 8s that have been our choice over the years are reaching Holiday Inn prices, and Day’s Inn and Comfort Inn are just very expensive Super 8s. The pool and spa at the Super 8 in Albuquerque was so dirty, we wouldn’t get in it. The local Board of Health needs to look. Many of the local Owner/managers are good business people from a particular foreign locality. But they tend to make it a family business with brothers, wives and children taking an active part in the day-to-day operations who simply don’t demonstrate the good customer skills necessary in this industry. An exception: ‘Jack’, who owns the Super 8 in Brookville, PA, and is from Nepal, is a shining jewel in an otherwise dismal picture of the industry. As we have many times in the past, we made most of our reservations through Hotels dot com. On at least two of our stays we were able to hear what the hotel was quoting walk-in traffic, seven to ten dollars less than we had paid through the internet providor. We were very disappointed, and will probably not use them again.

 

I have a ‘beef’ with the trucking industry. Truckers have this habit of leap frogging past each other at speeds sometimes only a mile or two different from the one they are passing. When the trucker decides to pass his fellow driver, he changes lanes without regard for overtaking traffic. Several times I was forced to brake very hard to avoid a collision with this inconsiderate and even careless driver. The truck traffic on many Interstate highways is so heavy that an additional lane needs to be added to just to handle the truck volume, and still allow passenger cars to maintain flow.


We had a good time. I hope you enjoyed reading this journal.

6/4/06