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MY MEMORY OF
A FRIEND NAMED WALTER

Walter A. Church
June 20, 1930 - October 4, 1993

 

                                   

 

  • The year was 1953. The place was South Ruislip, England, a suburb of London. I arrived for my assignment with the 7th Air Division (SAC), United States Air Force. I had been in my assigned living quarters only a very short time when an Air Force Staff Sergeant walked in and introduced himself as Walter Church, also informing me that his friends called him "Willie Church". Thus began one of my most outstanding and lasting friendships that I would know in my lifetime. This friendship would last for more than forty years. So I sit here in 1996, after all these years and try and recall times with, and events about Walter. The following paragraphs are not in any special order, but recorded just as they come to my mind. One might ask how accurate are these comments after all these years. I can assure you that these comments are accurate and as real today as the day that they occurred. When you experience a friendship like the one that existed between Walter and myself, you never, never, forget any of the details.
  • The three years we spent in England together were probably the most memorable in that we were able to spend a lot of time together. This time was mostly spent sightseeing and taking pictures. We traveled all over England and spent a lot of time in the London area. To name a few places, we visited: Oxford, Cambridge, White Cliff’s of Dover, Brighten by the sea, Tower of London, London Bridge, Buckingham Palace, Houses of Parliament, Trafalgar Square, Windsor Castle, St. Albans, William Penn’s Old Quaker Church, and Stratford Upon Avon (Shakespeare’s Home). Walter had arrived in England early enough to see the Coronation of Queen Elizabeth in June of 1953. He considered himself lucky to have witnessed this once in a lifetime event. He spoke of it often.
  • I have such fond memories of each of these places we visited together. For example, when we visited St. Albans, the hometown of Errol Flynn, but our reason there was to visit a Pub named "Ye Ole Fighting Cock." This Pub had been in continuous operation since the year 795 (this is not a typo, the year is 795). Near the Pub was part of the old Roman Wall that had been erected the length of England and could be seen as one exited from the Pub. As we walked out of the Pub and looked at the remains of the Wall, Walter turned to me and said: "Ollie, I am sure you were there and helped build that Wall." Walter’s sense of humor and timing would rival Yogi Berra’s.
  • The assignment to 7th Air Division not only was some very hard and interesting work, but also included a very good social life. The folks within our small group were very compatible and shared a lot in common. Therefore, we met frequently in each other's home for dinner and exchange war stories. The English Penny was a large copper and we all saved our pennies and when we met we all played penny poker. We just had a good dinner and a lot of just plain old good fun. I, for one, feel very fortunate to have been selected to serve with this group of people. We were all hand selected for this job. Most of the activities we were involved in were highly classified. The place where we worked was near High Wycomb, England. This site was a three-story building all under ground. It was the location of the Old World War II, Headquarters of the 8th Air Force, known as Pinetree. In 1953, it had been cleaned up and became known as Lancer Control. From this location, we monitored and controlled all the Strategic Air Command’s aircraft operating East of the Azores throughout Europe and North Africa. This facility operated 24 hours, seven days a week. This is where we met all the guys that Walter and I would talk about for years to come. Names like Grazier, Middleton, Pickavance, Orth, Outram, Whitworth, Patton, Pearson, Darcy, Steel, McCourt, Brown, Nysson, Corbin, Hardin, Coates, and others. This was a time and place a special group of people did a great job and did it extremely well.
  • Over the years our paths crossed with both good and sad times. On a visit to Washington D. C., Walter treated me to a steak dinner at Blackie’s House of Beef, located at 21st and M Street. Years later I would take my wife, Loraine, there where we reminisced about Walter. On a sad note we met in Washington at Arlington Memorial Cemetery, in 1956, to bury a very good mutual friend, Roy Brown, who died unexpectedly at a young age. Walter and I along with John Nysson (another mutual friend) were honorary pallbearers.
  • Within a few days after I first met Walter, we went house hunting. I was married and my wife, Loraine, was still in South Dakota. This time period being so soon after World War II, housing was in very short supply in England. Therefore, your family could not come to England until you had located adequate housing. The reason for this commentary is to tell another Walter fun event. We soon located two rooms in a widow's house where we would share the kitchen. I had no plans of living there, I took the place just to have an address so that I could get Loraine on her way to England. The landlady had a turtle in the back yard, she had had this turtle for a number of years. The turtle was kept on a chain. A hole had been drilled into the turtle's shell and the chain hooked through and the other end tied to a large tree. Shortly after I took up residence, Walter came over and we were enjoying the evening in the back yard. Walter decided that he would share his beer with the turtle. I then followed offering the turtle some of my beer. We could not believe how much beer that darn turtle drank. The more the turtle drank the more we poured. It was not long before the poor old turtle could not even walk. We laughed many times about this event.

 

  • One day in the Pentagon I answered the phone and it was Walter. He was approaching the date for his last reenlistment tour in the Air Force before his retirement. Walter wanted to know if I would perform the oath of office at his reenlistment ceremony? I immediately became aware of how close our friendship had become over the years. At this time Walter was working in the National Military Command Center, the nerve center of the United States Defense Department. He was in daily contact with three and four star Generals, any of whom would have gladly performed his reenlistment ceremony. Yet, Walter reached into the basement of the Pentagon for a lowly Lt. Colonel, his friend "Ollie" to perform this honor. I was very touched by this request and felt it a great honor and a privilege to perform this ceremony for my dear friend Walter.
  • Walter was a very caring person. I am sure he had no enemies. He was very devoted to his family and frequently talked of them while visiting in our home. I felt I knew all of his family although I had never met any of them. But this did not last long, since Loraine and I would be traveling through High Point, NC he insisted that we stop by and visit with his Mom and Dad. We did stop and have lunch and they were just as Walter described them. Beautiful people, I then understood why Walter was such a wonderful son and individual. On another trip through High Point we had the pleasure of meeting and spending the night with Walter’s sister Margaret, and her family. Margaret had two daughters, which Walter cherished and dearly loved. I do not think any one could be loved and cared for more than these two nieces. Walter talked continually about these two girls, you would have thought that they were his very own children. Walter LOVED THESE GIRLS.

  • Walter was a very avid Washington Redskin and North Carolina Tar Heel football fan. He waited so many years to get his season tickets, with the first ones being in the end zone, but the location of the seats did not matter to true and die- hard fans. I had the pleasure of sharing his seats with him several times. He also took Loraine along. One time when Loraine’s parents were visiting us in Washington, Walter insisted that I use his tickets and take my father-in-law to see the Redskins. I can remember one year in the 1970’s when Walter bought a new Chevy. It was a true North Carolina Tar Heel blue and he was extremely excited about this car, but most of all its color.

  • I guess the most touching and memorable event that occurred during our long friendship was the day of my retirement from the Air Force. A retirement party sponsored by my Pentagon associates was held in the basement of the Pentagon. Walter was in attendance, my peers were aware of my close relationship with Walter and made arrangements that he be there. There is a custom in the Air Force that upon your commissioning as a Second Lieutenant, you reward the person that you receive your first salute from with a one-dollar bill. I know of no such custom for receiving your last salute. Unbeknown to me, after the party and I was leaving the big Pentagon parking lot, at the exit point, there stood Chief Master Sergeant Walter A. Church, at attention, with one of the sharpest salutes that I ever recall receiving. I returned the salute, stopped, and Walter approached the car. I said Willie that salute was worth at least five dollars. With a tear on my cheek I handed Walter a five-dollar bill, and he replied that that five dollars would be framed and hung on a wall in his apartment. I will never forget that moment. I still don’t know how Walter got from the Pentagon basement to the point of exit so fast.
  • The last time I saw Walter was on a Thanksgiving Day in Virginia. We drove all the way from Georgia and had a wonderful Thanksgiving Dinner. But what had made it an extra special day, was our host knowing what good friend we were with Walter, had worked hard and located him in Washington and invited him for dinner as a surprise for us. He was the same as the first time we had met thirty years earlier. He had that BIG GRIN which turned into a BIG SMILE. Looked as fit and trim as always along with his trademark "SHINED SHOES". I don’t think I ever saw Walter when his shoes were not shined to the highest gloss.
  • Everyone has heard the saying: "If you can’t say something good about an individual, keep your mouth shut." Walter practiced this more than anyone that I have ever known. He always had something good to say about everyone he knew regardless of any extenuating circumstances. I recall on one occasion when I talked with him, while he was working in the Department of Justice Command Post. Mr. Ed Meese was the United States Attorney General and was catching flack from all sides. Walter said don’t believe all those things the Media is saying about Mr. Meese, he is really a fine fellow. He always had good and nice words with whom ever he had contact.

PRENTIS L. OLLIS, Lt. Col., USAF, Retired

A Friend of Walter Church

The Year 1996

Walter's illness was pancreatic cancer.

 

 

Memories of Walter's sister, Margaret