Don Carlon Stotts was
born October 6, 1920, in Gordon, Texas, the oldest child of Hiram
Wesley (Bo) Stotts and Corrie Boyd Stotts. Some early records also
list his name as Carlon Rupert. Carlon had two brothers, James
Darrell Stotts and Bobby Mahlon Stotts, and one sister, Marilyn Jane
Stotts Wilson. The family lived on a farm southeast of the
community of Southland until sometime in Carlon’s grade school years
when the family moved to Slaton. He often spoke of riding a horse
to school in those very early years at Southland. Carlon attended
Slaton High School, where he played football for the Tigers and also
met his future wife, Jerry. He drove a truck on weekends for his
father’s trucking company in Lubbock, and he graduated from high
school in 1940.
Sometime after high
school, Carlon went to work for the Santa Fe Railroad. His first
job with the company was in Belen, New Mexico, where he worked as a
brakeman. He was working there at the time he married Jerry on
October 12, 1941 back home in Slaton, Texas, at the parsonage of the
pastor of the Methodist Church. They returned to live in Belen, but
shortly afterward, they were transferred to Clovis, New Mexico,
where they lived until 1943.
Military Service
Just two months after
they married in 1941, the country endured the horrific tragedy at
Pearl Harbor on December 7 and the beginning of the United States
involvement in World War II. In 1944, Carlon enlisted in the U. S.
Army Air Corp, and he was inducted into service in Santa Fe, New
Mexico on April 5, 1944. His military occupational specialty was AP
Armorer Gunner #612, according to his enlistment record. He was in
armament school at Lowrey Field in Colorado, and he was in gunnery
school in Las Vegas, Nevada. He was then stationed in Wichita
Falls, Texas and Lincoln, Nebraska, and Jerry remembers visiting him
in Lincoln and Las Vegas while he was on leave. Their first child,
Don Taylor Stotts, was born in Slaton on August 10, 1944, while
Carlon was away in the service.
Carlon’s
brother-in-law, LaVern (Rastus) Pounds, also served in the Army Air
Corp at the same time. His wife, Omega, was Jerry’s older sister,
and the sisters lived together in a small home in Slaton and gave
birth to their first children while their husbands were away. Doug
was the child born to Rastus and Omega during this time, and he was
born on February 5, 1945, six months after Don was born.
Carlon never served
overseas, but his younger brother, James, did. In 1944, James’
plane was shot while flying a mission over Munich, Germany,
resulting in the crew limping their
crippled plane into Switzerland, a neutral country. A few months
later, James died in Switzerland, while being held at a Swiss
internee camp. Carlon was home on his first leave from the service
in October of 1944 to see his new son for the first time when he and
the rest of the family received the news of James’ death. Carlon,
Jerry and Don were actually on a short trip together to Ruidoso, New
Mexico when they learned the tragic news. More information on the
life of James Stotts can be found on his upcoming biographical
tribute here soon.
Carlon was a Corporal
with the 3021st Army Air Forces Base Unit at the time of
his honorable discharge in Amarillo, Texas on November 19, 1945. He
was discharged early with a “Dependency Sec. 3 AR 615-362 15 Dec.
44” reason and authority.
Family
In the coming years,
both Carlon and his mother, Corrie, also endured the loss of the
other two children in the family under tragic circumstances, leaving
Carlon being as lone surviving child out of four children while his
mother was still alive. Carlon and Jerry stood with Corrie for the
rest of her life and made sure that she was cared for. They also
took her to see her sister, Onnie, that
lived in Amarillo on a regular basis, too.
After his discharge
from the service, Carlon returned to live in Slaton with his wife.
He also began to work full-time for his father, Hiram (Bo) Stotts,
in the family trucking business in Lubbock. Jerry is quick to
recall that Carlon sold her favorite little blue car and bought his
first truck at this time, too, much to her dismay, as she loved that
little car. Carlon and Jerry had their second child, a daughter, in
Slaton in 1950 (living descendant). Sometime in the mid 1950’s,
they moved to Lubbock and bought a home on 30th Street.
In 1955, Carlon’s father passed away, and Carlon began to run the
trucking company on his own. They also had another daughter in 1958
(living descendant). In 1959, they moved to their permanent home on
53rd Street in Lubbock near Monterey High School, where
they raised their family and lived out the remainder of their
married life.
Career
Carlon owned and
operated Stotts Trucking Company, Inc. until retiring in 1986 and
selling his permit. The company was originally founded by his
father in Lubbock sometime in the 1930’s. The mainstay of the
business involved hauling steel and cotton, usually to the port area
of Houston. For several years after he returned from his service in
the Air Force, Carlon’s son, Don, also worked in the business,
eventually moving to Midland to oversee a large long-term job at the
airport there. Once it was completed, Don and his family remained
in the Midland area, and Don took a job with another company.
Carlon was a member of the Texas Oilfield Haulers Association for 30
years, and he was a well-respected businessman in the area,
generally employing anywhere from five to ten drivers at any given
time. On occasion, Carlon was also known to drive trucks himself.
He was truly a one-man operation, and he handled all the business
and repairs himself for the most part. If a truck broke down on the
road, Carlon would head out in his car to meet it, no matter what
time of day or night it was. He was involved in a serious truck
accident that might well have killed him, had he not been thrown
from the truck. He was also in an explosive accident on site at his
office while working on a truck engine that resulted in serious
burns over much of his body and a lengthy hospitalization.
Enjoying Life
Carlon and Jerry and
their children enjoyed many wonderful times together with extended
family, the Taylor family, while all the kids were growing up.
Weekend get-togethers at various family homes were the norm, and a
good time with good food was always had by all. The adults often
played card games, while the cousins played together, and most of
them became quite close. The families often made trips together to
Lake LBJ at Kingsland in central Texas in the summers, and those
times became treasured memories for all. Carlon owned a red and
white Larson Lapliner boat, and he towed many kids and cousins
around all parts of the lake every summer. Most all of them learned
to water ski behind Carlon’s boat with him at the wheel, giving them
instructions on what to do. He would often wake them at sunrise to
go skiing to the dam in Marble Falls before the lake got more
crowded, and he would treat them to breakfast at the restaurant at
the dam before making the return trip back across the lake. On rare
occasion, he would also hand over the wheel to one of the older kids
and take to the water skis himself, to the delight of the rest of
the family. He loved to play in the water, and he passed that love
along to others in his family.
In the early 1970’s,
Carlon had an in-ground swimming pool built in the backyard of their
home, so that his children and grandchildren would have a place to
swim, since there were very few pools in the city at that time. It
proved to be a popular place for the family and friends to gather,
and his grandchildren always enjoyed swimming in Papaw’s pool. Many
good times and great memories were made by the pool together, and
some of the grandkids also learned to swim in that pool.
Carlon was an avid
golfer, and he played weekly with his regular golfing buddies,
usually at Meadowbrook Golf Course. His grandsons also enjoyed
golfing with him on occasion, too. His golfing friends became
life-long friends, and they enjoyed many regular golf outings
together and were known to tell some tales on each other that were
quite entertaining. Carlon was also known for his escapades of
fishing golf balls from the ponds while golfing, too. He managed to
collect literally hundreds of them over the years that were given
away or sold in garage sales, despite the teasing from his golfing
pals.
Football, especially
Texas Tech football, was always one of Carlon’s favorite pastimes.
He and his wife held season tickets for many years, and attended
home games regularly. They were also known to follow the team to
several out of town games and bowl games either alone or with
friends. His trademark red hat was one way he showed his support
for his favorite college team. When it was no longer practical for
them to go in person, they faithfully watched those games on
television or listened on the radio. Carlon also purchased the
entire set of Dirk West posters of the mascots of the original
Southwest Conference when they were issued, and those were donated
to the Southwest Collection at Texas Tech University shortly after
his death.
For several years in
the 1980’s and 1990’s, Carlon and his wife jointly owned a home with
eleven other couples in Ruidoso, New Mexico. This enabled them to
enjoy some quality time there about four weeks a year in one-week
increments, and they had many great times there with both their
friends and their children’s families. It was a large three
bedroom, two-story home which was new when they bought into it, and
they would sometimes go even more often with other members of the
group during their own weeks.
Church and Friends
Carlon and his wife
were long-time members of Asbury United Methodist Church. For many
years, Jerry joined and attended with their children, but then
Carlon also joined in 1977 after being a member of the Church of
Christ for many years. They were members of the Crusaders Sunday
School Class at Asbury, and made many dear and life-long friends
there. This special group of friends enjoyed many wonderful times
together, including regular monthly socials and yearly bus trips
together to various places around the United States and Canada. The
early group also made a trip to Hawaii together. He was the finance
chairman for his church from 1979 to 1981 and served as the church
treasurer from 1985 to 1998. Carlon and his wife were among a loyal
group of members who helped to support and sustain the small church
for many years. Carlon, along with some other men of the church,
were always available to take care of whatever needed doing at the
church. Carlon always had a big heart for others in need, and he
helped them as much as he could.
A Typical Day
A typical weekday in
Carlon’s active adult working life would have him rising very early
in the morning and off to join his group of friends at a local
coffee shop before going to work. He worked tirelessly, and often
got quite dirty, at the truck shop doing whatever needed doing. He
was known to sometimes join his competitor and some others down the
street for a quick afternoon game of dominoes as he could, too.
Carlon would arrive home around dinner time to a good home cooked
meal and would dine with the family in the kitchen, the most popular
room of their house. After dinner, he would shower and settle in
for an evening of television in his favorite La-Z-Boy chair by the
fireplace. He loved to change channels frequently on the remote,
which was known to sometimes drive the rest of the family a little
crazy. He often read in his bible as well, and it could always be
found on the table by his chair. He generally retired around 10 pm,
as he always had an early start to the following day. That was also
true when ever he was on vacation, too, as he would sometimes rise
hours before anyone else.
Carlon was a pretty
direct person, generally saying what he thought about any given
situation. He could even have been described as “cantankerous” at
times, especially when suffering from an illness or not feeling
well. In his later life, he was in pain much of the time for
various reasons, but as he got older, though, his personality gave
way to a more mature and calm-natured one, even though he still
often felt less than good.
Later Life and Death
Carlon endured two
open heart surgeries later in his life, the first one in about 1977
just before Christmas and the second one in the early 1990’s. He
was blessed with successful procedures both times. His family
celebrated Christmas in 1977 by taking a small Christmas tree and
setting it up in his hospital room for him. The first surgery was
done at a time when open heart surgeries were just beginning to be
performed, which made him one of the earliest patients in the area
to have that procedure done. It was a scary time for him and his
family, but they put their faith and trust in God, and it went very
well. It was also after this surgery that Carlon renewed his
devotion to God and family once again and became regular in his
church attendance and involvement. He became more physically
active, walking and working out regularly as he could, and with the
help and support of his loving wife who prepared meals and cared for
him in so many ways, they both successfully changed their eating
habits to a large extent. This helped him to live many years in
relatively good heath after the first surgery. He had also smoked
in his early adult life, but he successfully kicked the habit some
years later.
Late in 1997, Carlon
was diagnosed with cancer. He fought the good fight, enduring the
side effects of chemotherapy and other regular treatments until it
finally took his life on August 6, 1999. Jerry stood with him and
cared tirelessly for him throughout the ordeal. He was being set up
for home hospice care when he took a sudden turn for the worse and
was rushed back to the hospital. He was aware of those around him
for only a brief time, but then he slipped into an unconscious state
as his body began to give out. Within days, he lost his battle, but
he had finally won the victory. All of his family was at his
bedside at the hospital as the nurse listened through the
stethoscope and finally pronounced that he was gone late that
evening as the family held him and prayed together.
Carlon was honored
with a touching funeral service and many beautiful flowers at
Asbury, and a grandson, granddaughter and daughter-in-law honored
his memory with special music that they performed together. Many
family and friends were in attendance, and blessed Jerry and the
rest of his family in loving ways, especially with food and
memorials to his church. His special friends, his pastors,
officiated the service, and it was a
wonderful tribute to his life. Don Carlon is buried in the Estates
Section of the City of Lubbock Cemetery in Lubbock, Texas, along
with his son and all of the members of his family of origin who
preceded him in death.
Carlon is truly loved and sorely missed by those family members and
friends he has left behind. He was a loving son, brother, husband,
father, grandfather and uncle who took his responsibility to family,
friends, church and God to heart, and we look forward to that
beautiful day when we will all be reunited once again with him in
Heaven.
Surely, he already has the pool open there for us.