Colonel Philemon Hawkins, of Pleasant Hill, Warren county, North Carolina, in the 77th year of his age, having for many years entertained the desire to call together his descendants and connexions, as well as those of his late father, Col. Philemon Hawkins, senior, deceased, at his late residence in Warren county, with the view thus assembled to make in whole family union, did, on the 28th day of September, 1829, thus assemble them, as well as health and circumstances permitted; and he invited many respectable friends to associate upon the occasion, having previously caused the old family Mansion House of the deceased to be fitted up. When thus assembled, he called upon his Grandson, Leonidus Polk, and Great Grandson of the deceased, to offer up to the throne of grace a prayer upon the occasion, who delivered an elegant and a very appropriate prayer. And he called upon his son, John D. Hawkins and Grandson of the deceased to deliver an oration commemorative of his history, and his virtues, when he delivered the following:
My relatives and respected hearers:
I am called upon by Col. Philemon Hawkins, now the elder, to fulfil a trust,
which his great desire to greet his relatives and friends, influenced at the
same time by the most profound filial veneration, has induced him to impose. It
is for me to attempt on this day to do justice to the character and memory of
Col. Philemon Hawkins, senior, deceased. The task is a novel one, and the theme
requires abler efforts than, I fear, I can bring to the discharge of it. It is
therefore with great distrust I attempt to approach it. An assemblage of this
sort, and upon such an occasion, is not only new, but unprecedented in our
section of country. But, notwithstanding its novelty, what can be more
justifiable, or more interesting, than to witness a large assemblage of
relatives and friends, called together by the venerable head of his family
association, to pay homage to the great worth of a departed ancestor, who, when
living, stood pre eminently at its head? It is an effort, although a feeble one,
to arrest from oblivion the recollection of one, whose memory if fast fading
away, and era long will be forgotten, because all who knew him will soon have
passed by and be forgotten also.
To hold up to view the successful enterprise, the patriotism, and the virtues of
the departed dead, is the province of biography, which acts as a mirror to
reflect upon the living, examples of wisdom and of worth, from whence may be
derived the most salutary lessons. If biography in general produces those
conceded results, its benign influence will operate in an increased ratio upon
relatives, when contemplating the enviable character of a departed and beloved
ancestor.
Col. Philemon Hawkins, senior, deceased, was born on the 28th of
September, 1717, on Chickahominy river, near Todd's bridge, in Charles City
county, and State of Virginia, this day 112 years ago. He was the oldest child
of his parents, Philemon and Ann, and his father died when he was of tender
years, leaving three children, Philemon, John and Ann. Although Philemon the
elder died, leaving his children a scanty patrimony, he seemed to have
entertained particular notions of predilection in regard to them. He felt
towards them an unusual confidence; for, by his will, he desired that they
should come to the control of their patrimony at the age of 18 years; and this
confidence, as regarded the subject of this memoir, was not misplaced.
The widowed mother Ann afterwards intermarried with a native of Ireland; and by
the time her son Philemon had reached the appointed age of eighteen, his
celebrity for industry and manly deportment excelled all his associates, even
those of riper years, and was of extensive circulation, a sure prognostic that
he would rise above his then condition. Col. Lightfoot, of Williamsburg, a
gentleman of great wealth and discernment, had three plantations in Charles City
county, and the fame of our then youthful ancestor had reached him though he
lived sixty miles distant, and had deeply impressed him with a desire to place
these three estates under his youthful control. He sent for him to come to
Williamsburg, and on getting there, they made a contract, the stipulations of
which showed at once the confidence of the employer and the great reputation for
good management and great ability in the employed. But his mother was unhappily
married. It was her misfortune not to find in her husband that conjugal
tenderness, affection and forbearance, which the wedded estate should assure to
those who enter into it. The ill treatment of her husband had rendered the
protection of her son Philemon necessary to her safety. And her husband's
embarrassments and difficulties had fixed in him a determined resolution to
remove to North Carolina. This was a trying time for the mother. To accompany
her husband she was compelled to do, but to leave her son, would bereave her of
that protection, which had but only stayed the iron of cruelty but was further
necessary to aid her with the necessaries of life, and to dispel the sad gloom
of a cheerless fireside. She entreated her son to accompany her, and he pleaded
his engagement, and the necessity he was under honorably to fulfil it. Under
these distressing and conflicting embarrassments, the unhappy mother repaired to
Williamsburg to entreat Col. Lightfoot to let her son off, saying although he
was but a boy, he had long desired his services and the pay he was to give him
was ample, and that he should not only injure himself, but her son, by letting
him off from the contract. With this mortifying and most distressing rebuff the
distracted mother retired to a neighboring place to spend the night, having been
unwilling to expose to Col. Lightfoot's views the secret motives which so much
prompted her to desire the company of her son. There melancholy, with all its
accompaniments of distress, harrowed up to her soul, and she resolved to try
Col. Lightfoot once more, though mortifying to tell him the cause of her
importunities. She gained his presence the next morning, and found upon his brow
that particular look, which indicated unwillingness to hear any more from her
upon the subject of her errand. But she entreated him to listen to her motives,
and unfolded to him her situation; that although her son was but a boy, he was
her gallant protector and defender. This changed the scene. Col. Lightfoot, as a
man of chivalry, could not permit his interest to weigh against a woman's
safety, and a mother's safety too, when that was to be served by the presence of
her son. He instantly said, go madam, and take your son. His great worth has
caused me to desire much his management of my business; but your need is
entitled to the preference and those rare qualities and powers, which he
possesses, and which had gained him my confidence and esteem, will insure your
protection.
Philemon, together with his brother John and his sister Ann, accompanied his
mother and her husband to North Carolina, and they settled upon Six Pound Creek,
then Edgecomb, now Warren county. Nearly the whole country was then a
wilderness, inhabited by Indians and the wild beasts of the forest. This country
was then called a frontier, where civilization had shed abroad but little its
influence, and where the first settlers had to share, in a great degree, the
privations which attended the first settlers of these United States. Persecution
conduced to the first settlements of America, and this though of a different
sort, fixed the destiny of this branch of the Hawkins family in this country.
There were other branches from the Charles City stock, which migrated to other
parts of the Union: One went to the State of Kentucky, which produced Joseph
Hawkins formerly a member of Congress from Kentucky, and who afterwards died in
New Orleans. That gentleman traced his connexion with our family in a
conversation with our distinguished fellow citizen, Nathaniel Macon, Esq. Who
now contributes by his presence to commemorate this occasion, and this day.
This branch of the family came here headed by Philemon, who was but a youth a
little toward eighteen years of age, poor in purse, but rich in spirit. By the
sweat of his brow he sustained his mother, his sister and his brother with all
the comforts their wants required. He cheered the drooping spirits of his
mother, and, by every effort in his power, contributed to her wants and her
wishes. His filial affection is remembered the more willingly, because it is a
virtue he not only practiced, but because his course was such as to inspire his
descendants with his kindred spirit; and it is that spirit which gave rise to
this assemblage, and it is one of the manifold evisorages of its analogy to the
parental stock which gave it birth. May its influence descend to the remotest
family generation in parallel with this laudable example!
In the year 1748, he intermarried with Delia Martin, the daughter of Zachariah
Martin, Esq. Who lived in an upper county of Virginia. But she lived with her
brother, Capt. John Martin, on Sandy creek, then Edgecomb, now Franklin county.
They were married in Virginia, at a church in the county of Brunswick by Parson
Besty. By her he had Fanny, who intermarried with Maj. Leonard Bullock, Col.
John Hawkins, Col. Philemon Hawkins, Col. Benjamin Hawkins, late superintendent
of Indian affairs, Col. Joseph Hawkins of the Continental army, and Ann, who
intermarried with Micajah Thomas, Esq. All of whom have long since passed to the
tomb, except our venerable host Col. Philemon Hawkins, who is also the only
survivor of the signers of the Constitution of North Carolina, ratified in the
year 1776, and whose laudable desire to see altogether the descendants of his
wealthy father, as well as his collateral kindred, has invited us here this day,
that his history may be told over, to excite us to inculcate his virtues, and to
profit by his examples, at the same time we attempt to do honor to his memory.
Our worthy ancestors lived at the mouth of Six Pound Creek, on Roanoke river,
about ten years. They then moved to this tract of land, and not many years
afterwards to this place, which was then in the county of Edgecomb. The province
of North Carolina was divided at an early period of our history as suited the
then Lord Proprietors, and their government, into eight precincts, as they were
called, to wit: Beaufort, Carteret, Chowan, Craven, Carrituck, Hyde, Perquimons
and Pasquotank, to which Bertie precinct was afterwards added, by a division of
Chowan. These precincts embraced the whole province, and were afterwards called
counties, and were divided and subdivided and other counties erected as the
population extended and the resources and necessities of the province developed
themselves. The first settlements were made upon the sea shore, and they
extended westwardly, as they increased. The metes and bounds of these counties
or precincts were but little known, and, owing to the savage inhabitants of the
country, their geography could not be better ascertained at that time.
Legislative acts were frequently resorted to, to settle occurring disputes about
boundary, and to form new counties, where the interests of the inhabitants
required them. This section of the country as well as I can now ascertain it,
was comprehended within Beaufort precinct, and Edgecomb county spread largely
within its limits. From Edgecomb the county of Granville was taken in the year
1758, and the dividing line began at the mouth of Stone House creek, on Roanoke
river. Thence to the mouth of Cypress swamp, on Tar river, and from thence
across the river in a direct course to the middle ground between Tar river and
Neuse river, being the dividing line between Edgecomb and Craven counties. The
uncertainty of this latter line now forms the subject matter of an unsettled
dispute as its boundary between the counties of Wake and Franklin. In 1764, the
county of Bute was taken from the county of Granville; and in 1779 the county of
Bute was divided into the counties of Warren and Franklin.
I have been thus circumstantial in the detail of the change and formation of
counties, because our ancestor figured in many of them, living the greater part
of the time at the same place. In the year 1757, he was elected high sheriff of
Granville county, which then consisted of what Granville now is, added to all
Franklin and all that part of Warren lying to the south of Roanoke river. In
this extensive country, where civilization was far from being complete, and
where the arm of the law was weakened by an habitual insubordination, great
energy of mind as well as personal bravery was required to perform the duties of
sheriff. These qualities he possessed in an eminent degree; and when his
deputies were overpowered, as was sometimes the case, by those who threw off the
restraints of the law, he repaired at once to the scene of agitation, and, even
when threatened to be mobbed would personally attack the leader, having the
address at the same time to win over his followers to a more correct course.
This once occurred in the Little river settlement, now in the county of
Franklin, where one Bud Kade headed a mob to avoid paying taxes. And in the year
1759, when Robin Jones was considered the most eminent lawyer in this country,
many of the suiters in Granville Court, whose misfortune it was not to get him
on their side, lost their cases, as they supposed, by his superior knowledge,
and they fixed the determination to drive him by violence from the Court. A
threat to this effect, it was hoped, would deter him from attending the Court;
but Mr. Jones was not thus to be alarmed. He felt that he was shielded by his
duty to his clients and the laws of the country; and that if the deputies could
not enforce subordination, he relied upon the high sheriff. To that end, he
privately advised the high sheriff of the machinations planning, and solicited
his personal attention early at Court, prepared for events, and to keep order.
Accordingly the high sheriff attended Court at an early hour, armed to meet any
occurrence. Robin Jones informed the Court of the danger which threatened him,
urging at the same time that he was an officer of the Court, and entitled to its
protection. The Court ordered the sheriff to keep out of the Court-House all
persons disposed to produce a riot. Thus protected by the constituted
authorities, and firmly supported by his own inclination, he met at the court
house door the ringleaders, and some of them were bold and conspicuous
characters; for among them was Col. Benton, the grandfather of Col. Thomas H.
Benton, the present Senator from Missouri, who felt himself aggrieved and
justified in the course he took. The threatening rioters assembled at the court
house door, armed, and made a show to enter; but were prevented by the
determined spirit of the High Sheriff, whose look, with arms in his hands, was
too convincing that the entrance would be too costly; and, therefore, they
desisted from their purpose, and dispersed.
The construction of the government which existed at this period of our history,
was one of such discordance between the governors and the governed, that the
moral force which is essential to its well being, and to the cementing together
of all its parts, did not exist. The idea of subjection to a foreign yoke, of a
tributary obligation even of the mildest form, is repugnant to the choice; and
although the idea might not at that time have been entertained to throw it off,
yet a restlessness and a dissatisfaction prevailed, and a slight matter was
calculated to produce a popular ferment. We can trace this jealous, discontented
spirit through our history for a long time before it broke out in the
Revolution, which cured us of that grievous disquietude. It was that
disquietude, but more systematically kept up, which had increased to an
unprecedented height, and caused the Regulators to assemble in the year 1771,
and which ended in the battle of the Alemance, on the 16th day of May
in that year. Governor Tryon, the then Governor of the colony of North Carolina,
resided at Newbery and finding that the Regulators were trampling down every
thing like government, and, if not resisted, would throw the whole country into
anarchy and misrule, and being by education a military man, and of great
personal bravery, he resolved to march against them, and called to his
assistance a considerable military force. He at the same time called to his
assistance as many of the most respectable citizens of the colony, and it had,
as was expected, the calculated imposing effect. The number of the side of the
Regulators was the largest; but they lacked discipline or unity of action. Upon
this occasion his Excellency selected our venerated ancestor as his chief Aid
de-Camp and assigned him to the hazardous duty to read to the Regulators his
proclamation, which he did promptly. And after the battle commenced, he was the
bearer of the Governor's commands throughout the whole action. This so exposed
him to the fire of the enemy, that his hat was pierced by two balls, various
balls passed through his clothes, and one bullet and two buckshot locked in the
breach of his gun, which he carried and used during the action. But he had the
good fortune not to be wounded. After the battle was over, he was complimented
by the Governor for the very efficient aid he gave him, and for the bravery and
ability he displayed during the engagement.
This spirit of dissatisfaction, which had so often manifested itself, although
apparently quieted for the time, continued to increase until it burst in open
opposition to the British Government, about four years after the battle of
Alemance, and terminated in the establishment of the independence of the United
States. It is little remarkable, that during this arduous struggle for our
independence, those who had been found, during minor conflicts, arrayed against
the government and laws, were never found acting conspicuously in support of it.
On the contrary, many of them were tories; and those who fought bravely under
the banners of George the III against the Regulators, were, during that great
struggle, the true whigs of the country. The reason for this difference seems to
have arisen from the circumstance that many of the Regulators were enemies to
good order and to government generally, and for those causes were unwilling to
unite in any systematic efforts to shake off the British yoke.
During this great struggle for American liberty, our ancestor being three score
years old, did not render himself conspicuous in a military point of view,
except by pushing forward his sons in aid of the good cause by supplying them
with all the money and other means which they required for that purpose. But he
was offered the command of a Brigadier General, which he declined, prefering to
act in a civil capacity. Although he was thus old, he had the industry, activity
and enterprise of a younger man, and prefered that his sons should go forth in
personal defence of the country, while he stayed at home and made and supplied
them with the necessary funds; and this he did largely, as occasions required
them, feeling and acting for the good cause more efficiently than he could have
done in the field. But after the adoption of the Constitution of 1776, and upon
the election of Richard Caswell, who was the first Governor of the State of
North Carolina, he was elected by the General Assembly one of the Counsel of
State; which station he filled for some time, not only with Governor Caswell,
but subsequently with Governor Alexander Martin.
Col. Philemon Hawkins, our ancestor, was a man about five feet nine inches high,
very compactly built, and, when in vigorous health, weight about one hundred and
fifty eight pounds. He possessed uncommon muscular powers and bodily activity,
and a strength of constitution, which enabled him to bear fatigue, and fitted
him for hardships. His early education had been scanty, owing to his poverty and
the loss of his father; but his natural mind was vigorous and comprehensive,
well fitting and qualifying him for correct judgment, for which he was
conspicuous. This made him seem to be correct by intuition; although he would
make very logical deductions, showing at the same time the possession of strong
reasoning powers. His buoyant and enterprising spirit always kept him one of the
first men of his time. This, added to his extensive business, gave him the great
knowledge of men and things, which he so eminently possessed, and were the great
sources of his general intelligence. Not having had the benefit of a more early
and a liberal education, and feeling great need of it, an particularly for its
concomitants, good language and the free use of words, he resolved at a very
early period to acquire the means, and to give his sons good educations. His
sons obtained by his assiduity the money, but the patrons of literature were so
few, and seminaries of learning so scarce, that there was not a classical school
in all this country, to which he could send his two first sons, Col. John and
Col. Philemon Hawkins. Under such circumstances, he concluded to send them to
Scotland, under the protection of a friend; but Col. John Hawkins was so nearly
grown, and unwilling to go, that the idea was abandoned. When Col. Benjamin and
Col. Joseph Hawkins arrived at the proper ages, he sent them to Princeton
College, which seminary was at that time, owing to the great want of
intercourse, much as is now in use, by stages and steamboats, almost as
difficult of access as many of the European Colleges. They continued at
Princeton, progressing regularly in their collegiate course, and were only
prevented from receiving the honors of the College by the war of the Revolution,
which waxed warm at Princeton, and in the Jerseys, and suspended the business of
that institution.
From the end of the Revolutionary war to the time of his death, our venerated
ancestor gave his attention mainly to the pursuits of private life. He was a
Justice of the Peace from an early period, as long as he lived, and was a
valuable member of the Court of his county. His favorite pursuits from early
life, were raising stock, cropping, and the pursuit of some regular profitable
business; and, by a steady application to them all, he acquired great wealth. At
the opening of the land office under the present government, having the ability,
he became largely interested in taking up and acquiring lands, as well as all
other property; he became entangled in many legal difficulties growing out of
the state of the country and the speculations consequent upon a change of its
policy. This new business, calling into action his superior judgment, showed him
to possession adaptation for it, for he uniformly prevailed. This latter
business, and his often seeking distant markets for what he had to sell, added
to his previous very extensive acquaintance, rendered his ear of the most noted
men in this country; and, what was calculated to keep up his notoriety, his was
a house of unbounded hospitality. It was always open to administer to the
comforts of all. And here I may be permitted to say, that no man ever had a
helpmate, whose general good sense, good management, and superior domestic
economy, exceeded that of Mrs. Delia Hawkins, the wife of Col. Philemon Hawkins,
sen'r. deceased. They were both poor originally, and had to resort to all the
drudgery of labor attending that condition of life. But, by their good conduct
and superior good sense, the scene was soon changed, and as they traveled on
through life, increasing in wealth, they also increased in respectability and
refinement, till at length their house - this house - was the resort of the
fashionable and the gay, the man of business and the literati of the country.
All found here a plentiful, an elegant, and a sumptuous repast. Although Col.
Philemon Hawkins was not himself a man of science, his sons Benjamin and Joseph
were, and they lived here with their parents, and added a zest to all that was
agreeable. The style and fashion of the place was noted and exemplary, and the
resort to it from many parts of our world considerable. During the French
revolution in 1792, there were many men of note from France, who resorted here
to enjoy the great pleasure of conversing in their own language, which Col.
Benjamin Hawkins, from his classical knowledge of it, was enabled to afford
them.
Col. Philemon Hawkins, sen'r, deceased, lived up to the maxim that extended
hospitality, properly conducted, did not conflict hurtfully with the true rule
of domestic economy; that the additional supply to be laid in for that object,
only required an additional effort to procure it, which the company of friends
always doubly paid him for. So that he set down these few additional efforts as
better and more agreeably requited than those bestowed for the sake of money
alone. And as the human character seems generally to the better satisfied, and
more regaled by variety, it might be permitted to weigh this maxim and use if
its analysis proves its correctness. He pursued the role of being generally
employed by some useful business, or to some useful purpose, and by way of
innovating upon its monotony, he would put forth his additional efforts to the
cause of hospitality, by way of change, and agreeable relaxation is the same
pursuit. By this means, though the pursuit be the same, the subject aimed at was
different, and that constituted the pleasurable variety. For the variety sought
for, is to the sense, and if the same pursuit produces it, which in every other
respect is useful, it is more than safe to rely upon this maxim. If this, then,
is a logical deduction, in a money making sense, and so it may be, by keeping
off worse pursuits, it surely should not be departed from. And to the pleasure
and reciprocal advantage afforded by the practice of hospitality, is to be added
the sum of advantage to those upon whom it is bestowed.
This house, once animated by the presence of our venerated ancestors, and once
the seat of pleasure, of grandeur and of science, has undergone by the work of
time a great change; and what is there upon which time will not leave its stamp?
For many years it has been almost deserted, and for a long time in a state of
dilapidation; and could the spirit of the dead look back upon that earthly
tabernacle which was occupied in life. Surely the spectacle to our ancestors
must have presented a sad contrast. But the day of resurrection for this
spacious old mansion is at hand. Our venerable host has decreed it to be so. Ere
long the extensive repairs already begun, and which are far advanced, will be
completed, when it will present again its ancient appearance, somewhat modified,
and somewhat improved. And one great incentive to this work arises from the holy
feeling of reverential regard for its ancient owners; and that appearances
should be received here as a tribute to their memory. The example thus set of
reverence to parents, if followed, will never fail to rekindle and to keep alive
those finer feelings of the soul, which enable our character and our nature, and
have been valued in all ages as virtuous testimony of grateful benevolence.
History records it as great virtue in Epammonondas, and at the celebrated battle
of Leuctra, where be gained nonfading laurels as a General, upon being
felicitated for the renown he had won, he showed his greatest pleasure consisted
in the pleasure his parents would enjoy at his victory.
This day one hundred and twelve years ago, Col. Philemon Hawkins, sen. Deceased,
was born, and he died on the 10th day of September, 1801, having
lived nearly eighty four years. He has now been dead upwards of twenty-eight
years, and notwithstanding the long time which has railed on since his death,
his appearance is still fresh in the recollection of many of us; and his manly
perseverance, his steady habits of useful industry, his systematic arrangement
of his business and his time, his contempt for idleness and dissipation, will,
it is earnestly hoped, never be forgotten by us. He was a great friend to
schools. Not having had himself the benefits of a liberal scientific education,
but possessing in an imminent degree all the practical good sense which could
estimate the worth of it, he was their liberal patron. He was a strong advocate
for internal improvements. His comprehensive mind pioneered him through the ways
which are now followed, though slowly, to advance the best interests of the
country in the way of its improvement. He had himself struggled through the
wilderness, had seen the face of the country gradually improve, and he regretted
much that all his influence could achieve was to open new roads, from whence
great benefit was derived.
When we take a review of his rise and progress in life, and contrast them with
the idleness and dissipation of the present day, we are ready to exclaim, that
degeneracy is surely among us. He lived within his income, and caused it
continually to increase; by which he was not only increasing his ability to
live, but to increase his fortune, and to add to his power to be useful.
Accustomed to labor in early life, laudable industry was viewed by him as a
great virtue, and as the road to honor and usefulness; and he who practiced it,
was much exalted in his estimation. He always looked back to the days of his
early life with pleasing reminiscences, and the most grateful feelings to the
giver of all good for having inspired him with the resolution, and given him the
ability and the aptitude for labour and industrious enterprise, by which he had
been able to throw off the shackles of poverty, and to acquire an ample fortune;
to raise and to sustain his family and himself in his old age. If a similar
course was now pursued, much happier indeed would be the condition of this
country. Let us then emulate his virtues, and inculcate his habits, and instill
into the minds of our children the examples of his prosperous and useful life;
and when each rolling year shall bring around the day of his birth, let us hail
it as his natal day, and endeavour to imprint it deeper and deeper in their
hearts.