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FRIENDSHIP   CEMETERY
McDONOUGH  COUNTY,  ILLINOIS

 

JOEL R. BARTLETT 1820-1864
MARY E. BARTLETT (nee NICHOLS) 1822-1886

(tombstone/s not yet photographed)

 



 
JOEL R. BARTLETT
DIED
JAN. 15, 1864
Aged
44 Y. 9 D.

 
 
 

 



 
MARY E. BARTLETT
DIED
JULY 10, 1886
AGED
64 Y. 1 M. 29 D.

BLESSED ARE THE DEAD
WHICH DIE IN THE LORD

 

 

An outline map of Ohio illustrating the location of Morrow County.Calculating from their tombstone inscriptions, Joel R. Bartlett was born January 6, 1820, and Mary E. Nichols was born approximately May 11, 1822.  He was a native of Ohio and she was originally from Virginia.  Based on the ages of their known children, they married in the early 1840s.

All of the Bartlett children were born in Ohio.  In both 1850 and 1860 the family was in Cardington Township, Morrow County, in the heart of Ohio.

Leaving behind the grave of one child and after the birth of their youngest son, about 1863, Joel and Mary brought their family to Tennessee Township, McDonough County, Illinois.  Their marriage was cut short by Joel's death in January of 1864.  One can only imagine the initial devastation and what it took for Mary and the children to get through the next several years, but they succeeded.  In the 1870 Federal Census the Bartlett farm was valued at $6000 and Mary and seven children were under the same roof.

The eldest son, Abner, married in 1872 and in 1880 was living about 150 miles west in Appanoose County, Iowa, with his second wife and two sons.  None of the other children married until after Mary died in 1886.

Mary's maiden name is also found as Nickols.  Other than Abner, for each child who married there should be marriage documents indicating, with luck, the county of their births and agreeing on the spelling of their mother's maiden name.  When son Eugene married in 1887, he spelled her name Nichols.

i. Anna E. Bartlett, born about 1844.  She married J. A. James about November 15, 1887.
 
ii. Harriet N. Bartlett, born about 1846, married John J. Kirk about April 10, 1890.
 
iii. Abner M. Bartlett, born about 1850.  Abner married Adeline Mitchell about April 25, 1872.  She and their infant daughter perished in February of 1873.  Abner remarried and in 1880 was living in Appanoose County, Iowa, with his second wife, Julia, and two sons. Abner and Julia later lived in Stafford and Pawnee Counties, Kansas.  They died after April 15, 1910.
 
iv. Ross L. Bartlett, born about October 17, 1852*, died August 10, 1888, probably in or near McDonough County, Illinois.  Burial at Friendship Cemetery.
 
v. Elmore Bartlett, born about 1854.  He was not listed with the family in the 1870 Federal Census.
 
vi. George N. Bartlett, born about 1857.  There is some evidence that George became a preacher.  He died January 21, 1930, in Lamoine Township, McDonough County.
 
vii. Eugene B. Bartlett, born in 1859, died April 19, 1933, in Tennessee Township, McDonough County, Illinois.  Burial at Friendship Cemetery.
 
viii. Clarence L. Bartlett, born about 1863.  He married Ettie Folts about November 1, 1888. Their little son, Charles, is buried at Friendship Cemetery.  Clarence died December 21, 1943, in Chalmers Township, McDonough County.
 
* Birth date calculated from tombstone inscription.

1850 Ohio Census, Morrow County, Cardington Township, page 383B
enumerated July 31, 1850, dwelling #492

Joel R Bartlett, 30, male, farmer, value of real estate 2500, born OH
Mary E Bartlett, 29, female, born VA
Ann E Bartlett, 6, female, born OH, attended school within the year
Harriet N Bartlett, 4, female, born OH, attended school within the year
Abner M Bartlett, 2/12, male, born OH

 

1860 Ohio Census, Morrow County, Cardington Township, page 96A
enumerated July 7, 1860, dwelling #896

Joel B Burtlett, 40, male, farmer, value of real estate 6230, value of personal estate 742, born OH
Mary, 38, female, born VA
Ann, 16, female, born OH, attended school within the year
Harriet, 14, female, born OH, attended school within the year
Abner, 10, male, born OH, attended school within the year
Ross, 9, male, born OH, attended school within the year
Elmore, 5, male, born OH, attended school within the year
George, 3, male, born OH
Eugene, 11/12, male, born OH

1870 Illinois Census, McDonough Co., Tennessee Twp., Tennessee, page 140A
enumerated July 11, 1870, dwelling #21

Bartlett, Mary E, 48, female, white, keeps house, value of real estate 6000, value of personal estate 1300, born VA
Ann E, 25, female, white, keeps house, born OH
Harriet, 23, female, white, keeps house, born OH
Abner N, 20, male, white, works on farm, born OH, attended school within the year
Rosa L [sic], 17, female [sic], white, born OH, attended school within the year
George M, 13, male, white, born OH, attended school within the year
Eugene, 11, male, white, born OH, attended school within the year
Clarence, 7, male, white, born OH, attended school within the year

 

1880 Illinois Census, McDonough County, Tennessee Township, page 553D
enumerated June 10, 1880, dwelling #69

Bartlett, Mary E, white, female, 58, widow, keeping house, born VA, father born VA, mother born PA
Anna E, white, female, 36, daughter, single, at home, born OH, father born OH, mother born VA
Hattie N, white, female, 34, daughter, single, at home, born OH, father born OH, mother born VA
Ross L, white, male, 27, son, single, farming, born OH, father born OH, mother born VA
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George N, white, male, 23, son, single, farming, born OH, father born OH, mother born VA
Eugene B, white, male, 20, son, single, farming, born OH, father born OH, mother born VA
Clarence L, white, male, 17, son, single, farming, born OH, father born OH, mother born VA

 

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