The Sutphins lived in Carroll Co in 1860. John and Lemima were first cousins.
John H. SUTPHIN and Laminia MABRY were married on 19 November 1859.121 Laminia MABRY132, daughter of JOSHUA G. MABRY and MARY F. "Polly" HUFF, was born on 5 August 1836 in Grayson County, Virginia.121,133 She died on 11 February 1861 at the age of 24 in North Carolina.121
Lemima is said to have married John Sutphin in Surry Co NC, but I don't know why she would have been there. He was her cousin. She must have died shortly after their son was born as John remarried in 1861.
John H. SUTPHIN and Laminia MABRY had the following children: