This marriage recorded 11 Dec 1810, p.196 and again on 20 Jul 1814, p.164. John Thurman to Theney Irons.
Buried Friendship Cemetery, Columbus, MS.
Mary Parthenia IRION and John THURMAN had the following children:
Mary Parthenia IRION and James HAYDEN were married on 8 July 1846 in Lowndes County, Mississippi.40 James HAYDEN42,43 was born in 1788 in Massachusetts.40 He died in 1863 at the age of 75 in Columbus, Lowndes County, Mississippi.40
Tax Records of Lowndes Co MS, 1833-1840; Logan & Webb, 1992
He wasn't listed separately in the 1840 census - the only Haden/Hayden present in the census was William Hayden - who was actually William M. Haden, grandson of Zachariah.
1850 Lowndes Co MS Census. James Hayden, age 62, Farmer. Birthplace not given.. Parthena, age 55. Total of 36 slaves. Green Gibson, age 30, Overseer, born in NC, lived with them.
The 1850 Agricultural Census for James "Haden":
[Was there a relationship between this man and the child adoped by Mary's sister Elizabeth?]
1860. Lowndes Co MS. James Hayden, age 71, Money Lender, born in Mass. $15,000 real estate and $40,000 personal property. Parthenia age 66, forn in GA, had $9,000 in real estate and $50,000 in personal property. Living with them was Parthenia Brown, age 24, also born in GA and owning $8000 worth of personal property.