Irene Cook may have had the wrong wife for Silas; thought he had gone to MO. He seems to be in the Trigg Co KY 1850 census. However this could be a different person.
1850 Trigg Co KY Census; District #2, p.333, Household 88. Silas, age 38, Carpenter, born in VA; Louisa A. age 25, born KY. Elizabeth A. Haden, age 6 & Zac T. Haden age 2. They are listed as a "Poor House" and have the following paupers living with them: Elly Walkin age 6, b. KY and Jake Womack age 78 b. NC.
1860 Census, Trigg Co KY, Hh 131
1870 Census, Golden Pond, Trigg Co KY, Hh 172
Silas HADEN and Louisa Ann LANCASTER were married on 13 August 1843.1,205 Louisa Ann LANCASTER was born on 7 August 1825 in Trigg County, Kentucky.205 She died on 26 August 1869 at the age of 44 in Trigg County, Kentucky.205