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Is Just Lookin’ Back In Time

Wondering about the past and lookin’ forward to the future

Hi, I am glad you stopped by.  Let me introduce myself.  My name is Deborah Jean and I hope you are having a wonderful day.  I made this website primarily to publish the genealogy information my Uncle Clark had researched since the 1950’s.  I only took over his research a few years ago to try to find a few answers in my past that he hadn’t been able to uncover.  Technology has come a long way since he did his research the old way.  All I have to do is click a few buttons on a computer.  He spent endless hours in libraries, traveling to meet people and writing letters that went by snail mail.  Now I have developed a passion to find the answers for him. I’m a bit of a computer geek and love trying new things with photos and have really enjoyed putting this together.  I’m still moving things around a bit, so if you find a link that isn’t complete, it’s because I am still moving it around a bit. 

 

Here are some places for you to visit while you’re here.  I hope you enjoy the journey

 

My Stuff

Come take a journey with me as I research my ancestors

Take a trip with me to Places in Time where my ancestors defined where I would be today

Check out the Inspirational Stuff that is sure to put a smile on your face

My Opinion on Prayer In Schools in the USA

Take a look at these Quotes and Quips

Links I like on the world wide web (under construction)

 

Life’s a Journey

Life is a real journey and it isn’t always wonderful.  LIFE is not always fair. Sometimes it is downright hard to put one foot in front of the other.  It isn't anyone's fault that sometimes Life just doesn't work out the way we dreamed it would.  So, we just have to make the best of what we get to have and enjoy it!  When Life is a LEMON, make LEMONADE and be happy to have it!  EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND EVERYTHING HAS A PURPOSE. Each day is a gift from God, What you choose to do with it is entirely up to you!!  Be Kind to others and experience the warmth that will bring your way!  Your life can change in an instant, so Enjoy Life’s Journey and make the most of what you have!

 

My Background

My Background is complex, and My Family is Complex.  We’ve managed to find happiness Somehow in all the confusion that Life has brought our way.  Life is all about changes and ALL about choices!  I believe that we all do the best we can at that moment with the knowledge we have to work with.  We have to learn from our mistakes and make better choices! 

 

Second Chances

I was given a second chance to spend more time with my family, and since then I re-examined my priorities and look more closely at "what kindness I can do for others".  I believe my purpose in life is to show a little more kindness to those who need it more than I do.  I believe that children are our future and they deserve a chance to grow up as kids and know that they are loved and wanted and be cared for.  I adopted my own foster parents to have that security, now it’s my turn to give back what I was given! When was the last time you did or said something nice for someone, Just because you could?  When was the last time you helped your neighbor or helped some little ole’ person make it to their car with bags of groceries?  Be Kind to Someone Today, It will make you feel good inside.  It is just an incredible feeling to help others and be a part of making their day a little better!  I try to do at least one "random act of kindness" for someone everyday! You should try that too!  It could just change your outlook on life! Be all that you can be!

 

My Greatest Accomplishment

My greatest accomplishment has been raising three wonderful girls and being a good Mom and Grandma.  Family is what life is all about!!  I enjoy every minute I get to spend with my girls and their families! You can either, embrace your family and be "present", love them with all your heart, enjoy them and spend quality time with them or you can "be distant" and miss so much,.  But it’s one of those choices you make along Life’s Journey that will effect not only you, but those around you.  If you aren’t close to your family, it is your choice and your loss.  I've also managed to have a great career helping people everyday.  You are successful by making other people successful! And you are happy when making others happy too!

 

Memories

Make a memory with your family today and keep it close to your heart. And don't forget to count your blessings!  Make the most of every single memory you can.  At any moment someone else's choices may affect you and rob you of more precious memories with those you love the most.  You probably have a better life than you even realized!  And kids, give your Mom & Dad a hug and tell them thanks!  PARENTING is not as easy as you seem to think it is, so give them a break, they deserve it.  It took me a long time to be able to give parents a break, I wish I could have done so when I was younger.

 

Reading, Writing, Arithmetic

May I suggest some reading materials?  It's Not about Me, Purpose Driven Life, Choices that Change Lives, How to Win Friends and Influence People, See you at the Top, The Glass Castle; For One More Day; A Boy Called It (And, if you think your life’s journey is a challenge, then read this book and you may appreciate the gift you have been given.  I don’t often feel sorry for myself or the life I’ve been given, but when I do I go read, that book again and I realize what a great life I have and appreciate it once again.  It is a true story and that boy had an unspeakable life but he always looked at the bright side of everything!  My life was a piece of cake in comparison.   How about reading the Bible?  It’s got some great stuff in it.    2 is better than 1

 

Christopher is making his very own “kids place” and is starting out with his very first page he designed.  See it at Chris’ Page

 

 

I sure hope that you’ve enjoyed your journey here.  I do hope that you have a really great day and enjoy all of God’s wonders he’s put before us to enjoy!

If you’d like to email me, there are links to do so on other pages.  I had to change things around to avoid the junk and garbage people choose to leave me with

 

 

I found the most incredible website to purchase graphics and papers.  You should really check this out: http://www.mangelsdesigns.com/index.htm

Some of these backgrounds are from the Background Collections by Susan L. Gabriel of SueAngel Designs through my purchase at Mangels designs.  Please do not take these graphics from my site.  Go there, and purchase unlimited usage of the graphics for yourself. 

 

 

 

        

 

My Home Page is Dedicated to My Sisters because our lives changed in an instant because of other’s choices

 

 

“Two are better off than one, because together they can work more effectively. 

If one of them falls down, the other can help him up…

Two people can resist an attack that would defeat one person alone. 

A rope made of three cords is hard to break.”  Ecclesiastes 4:9

 

 

Life is a Journey and Life is full of Changes

Appreciate what you have

Life can change in an instant

 

 

Some of the graphics came from Shawna

 

Thank you for visiting Looking Back In Time

Created and Designed by Deborah Jean

Copy write 5/30/00

Last updated: March 2008