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Mary Michaelis

Mary with gun
In California

Mary's parents Joseph and Theresa Michaelis

Marguerite and Mary
Spring Lake, IN

Mary, Joseph
and Marguerite Michaelis

Margaret Lawler
Michaelis

Hibben-Hollweg - 1924

Mary and Pete
Richter

Robert "Bud" Richter

Fred Richter Singleton Street, Indianapolis
Son Joseph |
My Story
By Mary Michaelis Richter Mary C. Michaelis
Richter was the daughter of Joseph and Theres a Stich Michaelis. This story was transcribed
May 18th 1988 by her son Fred.
(Mary died March 26, 1993)
I was born February 13th, 1902. Doctor
Moore
came to the house on South New Jersey Street on a bicycle at 4:00am in the
morning to deliver me at home. I have been told I was a tiny baby. My sister Marguerite was
born July
17th, 1903. She was born at home when we lived on South New Jersey Street also.
That's how
they did it in those days.
I only remember one of my grandparents, the others had died. Floribert Stich,
my
mother's father, died when I was four years old. About all I remember about him
was he was
a small man.
We went to California for my mother's health and lived in a tent on a
mountain in an
orange grove. My dad's brother, Uncle George Michaelis, owned a resort on
Catalina Island.
We went there on a boat to stay a few days, and ride the glass bottom boats. My
Dad says
we all got sea sick on the ride over and back. Mother became pregnant and wanted
to come
home to have the baby. My brother Joe was born September 14th, 1906 at home. We
lived on
North Jefferson. I was four years old and remember them coming down the stairs
and saying
I had a baby brother.
My mother had reddish brown hair, and her hair was beautiful. My sister had
hair like
hers. She wasn't very tall, about 5 foot 4 inches and slight build. She wasn't
very big,
but of course she had been sick for several years. She had TB, and she slept on
a screened
back porch for three years. I was seven years old and my sister Marguerite was
six and my
brother Joe was three when she died in November 1909. My mother was thirty-seven
years old
when she died of tuberculosis, and at that time we lived in the 1000 block of
Broadway. It
was a big two story house.
My father was a big man and there were times when he weighed around three
hundred
pounds, but he had a big frame. He had bought a saloon about 1900 at 241 North
Delaware
Street, which is now the home of the Wheeler City Mission. The saloon was on one
side of
the building and he had a pool hall and barber shop on the other side. He was
born in
Kansas and attended school on an Indian reservation; he never went to high
school. When he
came to Indianapolis he worked as a carpenter for Floribert Michaelis. My Uncle
Flori was
a building contractor. Dad went to North Carolina to work on the Vanderbilt
mansion for
several years. He came back to Indianapolis when he got Malaria, and it settled
in his
legs. He had bad legs, and that's when he bought the saloon.
We lived up north, but we still came to the south side because we had friends
there. We
went to St. Catherines and joined their dramatic club. Charlie Richter belonged
and my
sister Marguerite went with him. That's how I met Pete, he came over there one
night. He
was working; his dad got him a job as an apprentice bricklayer. We used to go on
dates and
take the street car and go downtown to shows, or else we would take a walk. We
would walk
up to Central and Fall Creek. Pete didn't dance. When I went with other fellows
we went to
dances, real nice dances. We didn't drink. What we used to do a lot, there was a
neighbor
next door, his name was Stockman, and he had a dance studio. He said to me,
"Mary,
why don't you come up and bring some of your friends." It was opened on
Wednesdays,
so we went there every Wednesday, a whole bunch of girls who were my friends, we
had more
fun.
I was kept out of school until Marguerite was old enough to start, as we had
quite a
distance to walk to school. I was eight years old at the end of the first grade,
but later
the sisters realized the situation and I made two grades a year twice. In those
days there
were two and three grades in one classroom. So the nuns worked with me and I
graduated
from the eighth grade at fourteen like most of the class.
While my mother was still alive we had a horse and buggy. The horse and buggy
were kept
in a livery stable. We would call up and have the livery man bring the rig to
the house.
He would have a bicycle in the back seat. It was a two seat buggy with a fringe
on top.
And he would come back on the bicycle and take it back to the livery stable.
People didn't
have their own livery stable in those days.
In 1911 my father bought his first car; it was a Buick. I don't remember how
much it
cost. Indianapolis had a bad flood in 1913. I can remember we drove out to see
White
River. It did not have the flood levees at that time, and we were watching when
a levee
broke and water came down the street. Also in 1913 my dad bought a place at
Spring Lake;
he also bought a 1913 Buick. I have a lot of pleasant memories of the lake. We
kids
learned to swim in Sugar Creek as the lake was too deep for us. We used to swim
a lot, I
swam side stroke because that was easy for me. I just wonder if I could still
swim? I used
to drive once in awhile, but Bud taught me how to drive in one day on the little
streets
around Beech Grove. In one day I had to get out and drive on the busy streets,
and have
been driving ever since.
We lived in an apartment above the saloon. We kids were not allowed in the
saloon. Next
door to us was a Chinese laundry, it was a house, and they had two kids, Rosie
and Newton,
and we played with them. The boy was about Joe's age and the girl was our age.
I've often
wondered what became of them.
I made my First Communion when they first made it that you could make it at
seven.
There were about three hundred kids in my First Communion class. I was in the
third grade,
and eight or nine years old. That was the first year they changed it for seven
year olds;
up to that time it was fifteen year olds. We moved on the south side and I was
in the
eighth grade. We wore uniforms, middy blouses and skirts, and even wore that
when we
graduated. I only remember one nun in grade school, Sister Imelda, and Sister
Blanch in
High School. I was never punished in school; I was a good girl. We never had any
sex
education in school. We got that outside. I worked with a girl, Bertha, she
started going
with a fella and they went canoeing. She came to work the next morning and said
"oh Mary, I bet I'm pregnant, Alex kissed me last night." That girl didn't know
anything.
We were out at the lake and we had a bicycle between us, Marguerite and I. It
was
pretty much like the bicycles today. We didn't ride it much. We didn't have any
modern
conveniences at our home on the lake, electricity or flush toilets. Of course
our home in
the city had these and we had two phones. One phone was Central, and I don't
remember what
the other one was called. It was two different phone companies.
I never had chores to do or baby-sit my brother, Joe. We had all kinds of
help. My
cousin came from Kansas, just to take care of us kids. There was a nurse for my
mother and
a housekeeper. We never got an allowance. We just didn't have spending money. If
we needed
money, sometimes my dad wouldn't be there, so we'd go down to the saloon and
call the
bartender out and he'd give us money. We would get money to go to the show or
something.
The shows were downtown on Illinois Street, and cost ten cents. They showed one
movie and
didn't have cartoons. After my mother died, my stepmother never wanted us in the
kitchen
and I didn't know how to cook. We were never disciplined or grounded, and never
got to
drive. My dad wouldn't let anybody touch that car. We didn't have a radio until
we lived
on 19th Street and I was eighteen or nineteen years old.
My dad met Margaret Lawler, who was a friend of my mother and he was telling
her the
situation, someone to take care of we kids, because we had had all kinds of
help: colored
help; everybody; and we were having problems. She said she would come and take
care of us,
which she did. We lived on Broadway then, but when they got married we lived on
Kenwood.
She was a good mother, and she was from Ireland. Once in awhile she would whip
us. We
would be at the lake and we had Willow trees and I can remember she would get a
Willow
switch and switch our legs. My dad; I never remember him ever whipping us
kids.
My dad and Mom Lawler got married in 1910. We kids didn't go to the wedding,
they went
to Cathedral and the Bishop married them. My mother had been dead about a year.
But Mom
always said that she did it to take care of us kids and that our dad used to say
it saved
him her wages. She was a friend of my mother. She was strict but a wonderful
mother and a
good cook. She had come over from Ireland with her family when she was twelve
years old,
and I think they were two weeks getting here.
The families never had any reunions, we had cousins like George Michaelis and
Albert
Stich we used to see. My father never went back to Kansas that I know of. He
came to
Indianapolis after his parents died. He was only about sixteen years old when
they died.
My dad sold the saloon on Delaware and bought one at Madison and Lincoln on
the south
side. We went to Sacred Heart, and I was there in the eighth grade. They had a
two year
business course which wasn't a regular high school course. Sacred Heart wasn't
an
accredited school then. After that, I got a job at the Prest-O-Lite, across the
street
from the Speedway.
The only dates I had in high school was with a boy next door, and we went on
picnics
together with a group on a truck. His name was Joe Wallheimer. They had hayrides
but I
never went on a hayride. We would go ice skating in the winter time at the lake.
We went
down the embankments on a sled and would go clear across the lake. The people at
the lake
used to cut ice and store it in sawdust in the ice-house at the end of the lake
by the
dam, to be used in iceboxes the next summer.
We wore bloomers, which were just like panties only there was elastic in
them. We wore
high top shoes with long stockings and long underwear. We girls had to wear hats
to Mass
and school. We went to Mass every morning and you couldn't go to Mass without a
hat. Mom
took us to church every Sunday but Dad wouldn't go. He got mad at the priest and
refused
to go. Although he went to church in later years.
I went to work when I was sixteen at the Prest-o-lite. I paid a few dollars
room and
board to the folks, I only made eight dollars a week. I didn't have to pay any
taxes but I
had to buy interurban tickets because I had to ride the interurban to work at
the
Speedway. It was a long ride. I would have to take the streetcar and then the
interurban.
We had moved to 19th and Park, because Mom didn't like the south side, and
that's where I
got married from. But, Pete, being a south side boy, we moved on the south side.
I worked
at Prest-o- lite for six years, and quit when I got married. In those days most
places
didn't allow you to work if you were married. We had a POL button from Prest-
o-lite and
we would go to the Speedway track at noon and watch them practice, and to the
qualifications. We met a lot of the race drivers because they had a railroad
into our
factory and they would bring their race cars there. Some of the girls had dates
with them
- I never did. I met Ralph DePalma and several others but I don't remember their
names.
I started buying my own clothes when I started to work at sixteen. We used to
have them
made. We had a dressmaker who made our clothes; we even bought hats that she
made. Our
swimming suits came down almost to our knees. When I got married I had plenty of
clothes,
and it's a good thing, because then I couldn't afford them.
I went to work at Lilly's. I was in charge of the Billing Department at
Prest- o-lite
and Lilly's was training me for billing the exports of Insulin, which had just
been
discovered, and was being shipped all over the world. I was running a billing
machine. I
never did use my shorthand that I had learned at school. And then I became
pregnant with
Fred. Oh! That about killed me - I had to give up that good job.
I made extra money by doing typing at home, envelopes mainly. I would do a
thousand
which would take half the night. I don't remember what I got, but it was cheap.
When my
sister Marguerite was sick, she needed special medication. I typed two different
times to
get the $90.00 to pay for each series of dosages. And when she died I did some
more typing
and bought her headstone. My stepmother died on the 13th of December, and my
sister died
the 13th of January, 1949, a month later to the day.
I worked awhile for the Arcade Letter Shop. It was downtown in the Arcade
Building at Washington and Virginia Avenue. The Arcade was a large building with
an arched roof and was lined inside with a lot of different shops. I don't
remember how much I made there. It wasn't very much, but I used the money for
other things.
I was working at the letter shop and met Jane Summers (Harrington) downtown
and she
told me Hibben Hollweg was looking for a bill clerk. So I went over and got the
job for
$15.00 a week. After a few years I just went in at their busy season which was
from August
to the first of the year. I don't remember when I started there, but the kids
were big
enough that I could leave them. I got pregnant with Joe and they wanted me to
come to
work. I was home and Pete and the kids had gone someplace, and in the meantime
this "'Ol Jake" who worked at Hibben decided to come down to talk to me. I
had broken my little finger and I thought "Oh no I couldn't work with this." I
knew he was coming so I tied it up and Pete and the kids came in and Fred said,
"Mom
what's wrong with your hand?" It was funny, so finally I had to tell Old Jake that I was
pregnant,
and that was the end of that job. I always did manage to have extra work to
count on.
During the depression when we lived on Singleton Street, we all made baseball
tickets.
Before I was married we were at Aunt Mary's cottage on the river. There was
some boys
next door, and they said they wanted to take us Snipe hunting. They gave us
sacks and we
went across the river into a corn field. They left, there was three or four
fellas and five or six of we girls. They said, "Now you stand here and hold the sacks
and we'll go and chase them to you"; Well anyway, this Voss'es mother had told us
what they
were going to do. As soon as they left we beat it down to the river and got a
row boat,
and went back across the river. Then they couldn't find us, they didn't know
that we had
come back. We turned the tables on them, let me tell you - that was funny.
I went with a fellow from Sacred Heart for two years, Walter Metzler. And
then I met
Pete. My sister Marguerite was going with Charlie Richter and we belonged to a
dramatic
club down at St. Catherines and that's where I met Pete. I was out of school and
working.
I only went with him about a year, so I was about twenty years old when I met
him.
Pete and I were married June 13, 1923, and we lived in an apartment. I don't
remember
when Pete asked me to marry him, but he always said that when he first saw me,
"that's the girl I'm going to marry." Course I didn't say that about
him. We had
a big wedding, the Bishop married us. My sister was the maid of honor and Laura
Krebs and
Margarete McGlocklin were bridesmaids, Charlie Richter was best man and Francis
Hellmer
was the flower girl. All the Richters were there and a lot of my relatives. Aunt
Mary, my
mother's sister, was there. She was my favorite Aunt. We got presents from them,
but I
don't remember what they were, that's been a long time ago. In those days you
went early,
and had like a breakfast instead of these big receptions, I never had a
reception. I paid
for my own dress, and my folks gave the breakfast. Mom had hired somebody to
cook it, but
I don't remember what we had. Then we went to Chicago on our honeymoon. Pete had
an aunt
there that owned a hotel. We had a nice honeymoon and they showed us a good
time. Maybe I shouldn't tell this, but my dad said "Well, I'll give you money." And
he handed
me money. Pete was standing there and I gave it to him. I don't know how much
was there,
and I never saw any of it. I imagine it was a hundred dollars or so and that was
a lot of
money in those days.
When we came back we lived with Anna Metzger. She lived in a double and we
were
supposed to get one side, but they were having trouble getting the people out or
something. We went and bought furniture on time and moved into an apartment on
Prospect
Street.
We lived in an apartment at 1244 E. Washington Street when I got pregnant
with Fred.
There had never been any babies. We didn't know anything about having babies,
but we
raised them and they survived. When I got home from the hospital with Fred,
Grandma
Richter came over a few times and clothed and bathed him. It didn't take me long
to get
onto that. I learned how to cook from a cook book, but I learned. Mom used to
say I didn't
know how to boil water. I wasn't scared when I got married or had babies, you
didn't think
of those things. Fred was born June 16th, 1924, and weighed 7 pounds 4 ounces.
We named
him Joseph Frederick after the two grandfathers. When Fred was about two days
old, Mr. Richter came to the hospital all upset; said "the first Richter boy in a
family was always named Frederick." He had one grandson named Frederick, so we thought
one was
enough. He said he wasn't a Richter! (Fred Hellmer). We were told we had to move
because
they didn't allow children in the apartment building. We moved to a small double
on
Hoefgin Street, and a short time later moved to the Richter's on Singleton
Street where
Bud was born. He was born in St. Francis Hospital September 27th, 1925, and
weighed 8
pounds. A good healthy baby, we didn't have the trouble with him that we had
with Fred.
Pete gave me most of his money and I put it in the bank and we wrote checks.
And, I
always was earning a little bit. There were times during the depression, course,
we moved
back to the Richters, when Rose and I did the ticket things that made us a
little money.
We were living at Richters when Bud was born. Fred was a year old when Grandpa
Richter
became ill and died at the age of 55, he had a sleeping sickness. I forget the
name of the
disease.
He didn't have any insurance. They didn't have Social Security then and
Grandma didn't
have any income. All she had was the house on Singleton St. Pete went to a
meeting of his
family and came home and said we would move in with Grandma. So we moved back to
the
Richter's. At that time Charlie, Susy and Urvin were still at home. I think Susy
was
working then. Urvin was about twelve years old. Anna came back after a few years
because
she and her husband, Howard Metzger, separated. We stored our furniture in the
garage,
none of us had a car. We stayed there four or five years. Bud was born that
September,
1925. He was a lovely baby. Fred was so proud of him. Fred was 16 months old and
every
time someone came to see the new baby, Fred would want them to see his baby
"butter." So we started calling him Bubber, which became Buddy.
I can remember, Anna wasn't there just then, and Howard had some hogs out
someplace,
and he'd go to a bakery and they would give him all this day old stuff to feed
to his
hogs. And you know who got the rolls and donuts. We were glad to get them.
I remember the iceman. The kids used to get up on the truck and get ice. We
had a
window box in the winters to keep things cold. We didn't have a car and I pulled
the two
boys in a little red wagon when we went anywhere. As they got older the wagon
got bigger.
When I came home from the hospital and we lived in an apartment, I washed the
diapers
in the bathtub on my knees and I could take them down in the basement and hang
them up. We
got a washing machine when we lived on Tabor Street that agitated, it had a
wringer and
two tubs on it. I remember my mom used to boil the clothes.
We stayed at Grandma's for a few years, then bought a house on Tabor Street
and moved
about 1927. The boys started to school at St. Catherines. They graduated from
there and
both went to Arsenal Tech. Fred graduated in 1942 and had to go in the Army. Bud
graduated
in June of 1944. He wanted to go in the Army but his eyes were bad and they
didn't take
him at first. They finally took him and he served about a year and a half. My
brother,
Joe, was also drafted. He went to England and was gone about three years.
When the banks closed my dad lost all his money, and I lost a couple hundred
dollars.
We gave the house on Tabor Street back to the bank, even though they didn't want
to take
it back. We paid $3500 for that house and our payments were $35.00 a month. But
we rented
the house furnished when we were over in Chillicothe with Pete. They were in
there over a
year, and then we took the furniture out and rented it again. I wanted to get
rid of the house then but the mortgage people said, "Oh keep it and pay us just what
you get." I think we were suppose to get $15.00 a month. The family we had in
there only
paid for three or four months, and we would go over there and they would have
all the
blinds down like they weren't at home, and we couldn't go after them. We got a
statement
that showed we owed more on the house with the interest, insurance, and taxes
than when we
started to pay, and we had it several years. We weren't getting anywhere and it
wasn't big
enough, it only had one big bedroom. So we let it go back.
I never will forget, we had been up to Mary Hellmer's, she had died, that's
Frieda's
girl. Fred was sick and having a temperature and I called the Doctor and he
came, and
lord, he had scarlet fever. They put a sign on the house in those days, nobody
could come
in to help me. Then Bud got it; then Pete got it; they were all sick at the same
time. The
milkman would leave milk, but he wouldn't take the bottles. I had library books
which were
overdue to go back, and I wasn't allowed out of the house, So I called and she
said, "you just wrap them up and drop them off. We destroy them when they have a
contagious disease." We had a basement that had a door in the floor to get down. We
had company,
Mrs. Weber was there and the Swalens, and we were sitting in the living room
talking. I had
made catsup and it was in the basement, it was one of Mom's recipes. It started
exploding
and went all over. What a mess!
One time I thought the house was on fire. Pete was out of town and I was
there by
myself with those two little kids. I heard fire trucks and got up, and there was
a flicker
on the house next door like flames. I thought my house was on fire but it was in
the
alley, it was a garage burning. I even called the fire department and they were
already
there, but I didn't see any trucks in front of the house. My boys still kid me
about that.
Our first car was an old Model T that Norman Suess gave Pete. It was a little
two
seater and had a rumble seat in the back. Pete made a truck out of it. But our
first car
was a Nash, I think, and that's when we lived on Kelly Street. It wasn't new, it
was a
used car. We bought our first new car after the war when we lived on Hervey
Street. It was
a Frazer. I'm surprised Pete let the kids drive it.
We moved from Singleton Street to Kelly Street. I remember we had a pup that
ran after
cars like it was wild. He ran out in the street and got hit. We put a splint on
his leg.
We moved from Kelly Street to Hervey Street in about 1939. Bill and Violet
Knieper were
our best friends and played cards two or three times a week. Then Bill died and
Violet
wanted something to do, so we started looking around for Dairy Queens and found
one down
on Madison Avenue. That was hard work and long hours. Pete was having trouble
with his hip
and did not work much at his trade. He did help at the Dairy Queen. I was there
about
thirteen years, and sold my half share to Violet's son, Billy.
We lived in quite a neighborhood on Hervey Street, we were all friends. We
always said
there wasn't another street like it. There was Alice Creighton, Catherine
Mueller and
Martha, Grace Mescall and Miss Gardner.
In the meantime, Urvin had married Caroline Achgill and Charlie had married
Rose
Gootee, so they all moved out after staying at Grandma's several years. Rose had
both her
girls while living at Grandma's.
Grandma had no one and she decided to sell the house and move into a room. I
told her
she could come live with us, which she did. Rose and Charlie had her half the
time and we
the other half. Frieda finally offered to take her turn.
Grandma was blind and a lot of care. The time came when we had to put her in
a nursing
home. By this time my stepmother became sick and senile, and Dad said he
couldn't take
care of her any longer. They auctioned off all the furniture and sold the house
at the
lake.
Mom was a lot of care, she would not sleep at night. She kept calling all
night, no one
got any sleep and we were really exhausted. Bud was still home and working, Pete
was also
working and they were worn out. We finally had to put Mom in a nursing home, the
doctor
told us to put her there until we got rested up. She didn't last too long, and
died
December 13th, 1948.
When the war first started, a whole bunch of the neighbors, Miss Gardner and
Grace and
Martha and I, went around putting our names in different places. Bill Gardner
drove us.
Pretty soon Lilly's called and I could have gotten a job back at Lilly's, and I
discovered
that I was pregnant. Boy! But that was the most wonderful thing that ever
happened to me
when I had Joey, I was forty almost forty-one. I remember old Mrs. Weber, Ed's
mother, told me, "God's given you that baby for a reason," and I believe he
did. Joe was
born February 6th, 1943, and weighed 8 pounds. He was a healthy baby. I was in
St. Francis
Hospital for 10 days that time.
Fred went to Australia where he met Valerie and married her. We had to sign
all kinds
of papers, as Fred was only 20 years old, that we would be financially
responsible for
her. The war years were very trying. We worried a lot, as we didn't know just
what Fred
was doing over there; also worried about my brother, Joe. Bud never had to leave
the
country; he was a drill sergeant stationed in Baltimore.
I was gone one evening and came home late. Val was upstairs walking the hall
with labor
pains and there was Pete and Fred sound asleep. I got them out of bed and they
took that
poor girl to the hospital, I didn't go. Fred wound up in the VA hospital and one
of us
would go to St. Francis to see Val, and the other visited Fred. Sandra Ann was
born and I
was glad it was a girl.
Pete was working on the new Post Office when he fell. He caught himself and
pulled his
shoulder out. That was awful, somebody called me and said that Pete had fallen,
and of
course I didn't have any details. But he was in a doctor's office downtown. Joe
was in
High School then, and I went over to school and got Joe out of school and we
went down
there and it was awful. They had Pete lying down with a sheet around him,
somebody was
pulling him one way while they pulled his arm the other way. I had to leave the
room, I
couldn't stand to watch it. That was the end of his work, he didn't do too much
after
that.
We bought the house in Beech Grove in about 1960. We lived there when Pete
died.
When I sold the Dairy Queen I got a job right away at Sigma Kappa National
Headquarters. I did auditing and thoroughly enjoyed my work there. After Pete
died I
stayed alone in the house for a year and a half, when Joe suggested I sell the
house. We
put up a sign one afternoon and sold it the next day.
After I sold the house in Beach Grove, I moved into an apartment on Madison.
I lived
there seven years. My friend Jane, who lived at Crestwood West Apartments, had
heard of a
subsidized apartment going up in Speedway. I called and put my name in, they
called me for
an interview and I got an apartment. Jane lives next door. I have saved a lot of
money by
living here, and I like it. The people here are all so congenial. I have my car
to get
around in, and at 86 just passed my drivers test.
Things were different in the old days but we didn't know any difference. When
I was a
child my dad had money. We weren't poor, but he wasn't what you'd call rich. We
had cars
and things and the lake to go to in the summer. We had Christmas trees with
candles
instead of lights and we always had a nice Christmas. I got a doll every year.
In those
days girls played with dolls, I guess my favorite toy was a doll. We girls never
wore
pants, and I thought I never would wear slacks. One of the grandkids bought me a
pair and
I've worn them ever since. It's only been a few years, I think I was living in
the
apartment then, after Pete died.
I can't say that I've had any tragedies in my life. I went through a period
with two
boys in the Army. I guess you could call that a tragedy, and I never knew what
Fred was
doing or where he was. He couldn't write and tell me. I finally found out, I
wrote and
said if he was in Melbourne to write and say something about Mel. But I never
knew what he
was doing, he had training to fly over an island and draw maps from that. One
other thing
was when I found Pete on the floor in the bedroom and he couldn't talk, and his
eyes - I
never will get over that. I almost ran off to work without going in there. And I
wondered,
what is that noise, he was kicking the bed and rattling it. I couldn't get the
Doctor and
called the exchange and a Doctor Moriority came who I knew too. Right away he
said there's
no chance for him, he'd had a stroke and there was too much brain damage. He
lived for ten
days. He had had a heart attack in 1960 but recovered from that.
Having three boys was one of the best thing that's happened to me. Course I
would have
liked to have some girls, but I'm used to boys.
Pete was kind of bossy; I don't think I'm bossy. We both took care of raising
the kids,
but Pete was gone most of the time. They used to fight, oh they'd have fights.
I'd go in
there and one would have the other one down, one time I just grabbed them by the
hair.
Bud's always claimed I pulled out his hair. But anyway they got raised. I don't
think I
was strict.
Oh, Grandma Richter! Everything meant something. Her dreams, and if a picture
fell off
the wall, my lands, somebody's going to die. She had a Ouija board, but the only
one that could work it was Bud.
We were living on Kelly Street and Anna died in California and was cremated.
When the
delivery man came, it was just a little box, and I said to him do you know
what's in here?
And he said yes. I sat it on the post by the stairs and when I went by there I'd
think, "oh my land, to think that that's all that's left of Anna." Her ashes
are buried
with her parents now.
My fond memories: the ones closest to now, is my grandchildren and my kids;
my friends
- Violet just called me and had to go for blood again yesterday, and I met Cliff
and
Violet so many years ago. We were together every Saturday night, it's effecting
me. We
would go out to eat and then would play cards, I miss all that. I have a lot of
fond
memories; we went through the depression and we never were hungry or cold; I
remember
getting six dollars when I worked at the Athletic Club, it was 25 cents an hour.
And, out
of that four dollars went for groceries for all week, and I'd have two dollars
left over.
We ate a lot of ham in those days and smoked shoulders.
I have lived a wonderful life and am proud of all my boys and grandchildren.
I never
thought I would have such a large and wonderful family.
Mary Richter
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