The
Aaron Stark Family Chronicles
Stark
Family Association Yearbooks
1909
Stark Family Association Yearbook
Transcription
& Editorial Comment by Clovis LaFleur; 2008
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Stark
¾ Scotland and America
A
Bull's head, erased a, r,
(Distilling
blood, p, p, r):
Fortiorum
fortia tacta.
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Book of Heraldry. |
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The ¾
Stark
Family
Association
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Editor's
Introduction
Charles
R. Stark, the Association Historian, presented some rather interesting
background on the difference between the Puritans and Pilgrims. He made
comments about Aaron, the Connecticut family progenitor; some accurate,
while others have proven to be inaccurate. He discusses the sons of Aaron
and the migration of several of the descendant families of these sons. There
is some discussion of the family origin, but related to the Glasgow,
Scotland Stark families.
Portraits
and sketches are presented. Nebraska Congressman William Ledyard Stark is
presented and contributed a section entitled "Reminiscences."
Other sketches are James R. Clark, Thomas Benton Kelley, and Benjamin Graves
Allen.
Clovis
LaFleur,
September,
2008
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Table of Contents
| Officers................................................................ |
6 |
| Report of the
Secretary......................................... |
7-10 |
| Report of the
Treasurer.......................................... |
10 |
| Report of the
Historian.......................................... |
11-21 |
| William Ledyard Stark
Portrait............................... |
22 |
| William Ledyard Biographical
Sketch..................... |
23 |
| Reminiscences by William Ledyard
Stark............... |
24-27 |
| James R. Clark
Portrait........................................ |
28 |
| James R. Clark Biographical
Sketch...................... |
29-30 |
| Thomas Benton Kelley Biographical
Sketch............ |
31-36 |
| Thomas Benton Kelley
Portrait.............................. |
32 |
| Benjamin Graves Allen Biographical
Sketch............ |
37-39 |
| Members of
Association........................................ |
42-45 |
| Attended
Reunion................................................. |
45 |
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Officers
(Re-elected
1909-1910)
President
MoREAU
J. StARK,
North Plain, Conn.
Vice-Presidents
W.
H. GEER, Yantic, Conn. R. F. D. 1.
CHARLES
R. STARK, 44 Chapin
Ave., Providence, R. I.
CHARLES
S. JEWETT, North
Lyme, Conn.
Secretary
and Treasurer
MARY
FANNY CLARK,
Colchester, Conn.
Historian
CHARLES
R. STARK,
Providence, R. I.
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Report
of the Secretary

THE
first meeting of the Stark Family Association was held August
13, 1895, with twenty-three members of the family present. Each
year has seen new additions, and up to 1909 there had been one
hundred and sixty-six names enrolled on our book. During the
past year fifteen new members have joined us. Our number has now
grown so large and we are such widely scattered family that a
slight introduction to new members may not be amiss. The last
Annual contained a brief sketch of one of the first on the list,
Harold M. Stark, Genealogist of the New Hampshire and Virginia
lines. The present book gives a sketch of Thomas Benton Kelley.
In the Aaron Stark line belongs Charles L. Stark of Norwich,
Conn., for upwards of thirty years connected with the firm of
Reid & Hughes, one of the leading dry goods houses of that
city. Mr. Stark has taken considerable interest in genealogical
research in his own line. Mr. and Mrs. James E. Stark of
Brooklyn, N. Y., have met with us at the last two reunions. Mrs.
A. B. Crafts has until recently lived in Westerly, R. I., where
her husband was a leading lawyer. Dexter W. Stark of
Tunkhannock, Pa., is President of the Winola Worsted yarn Co.,
of that city.
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Edger
Stark of Cincinnati, Ohio, Trust Officer of the Union Savings
Bank and Trust Co. of that city, his son William Ault Stark, and
his daughter, Mrs. Marie Stark Pentlarge of Wyoming, Ohio, are
descendants of William Trammel Stark, who was born in Loudon
County, Virginia. Mrs.
Elisabeth McElroy Hope of Chattanooga, Tenn., is the wife of a
prominent physician there. Washington Stark of Missouri, now
seventy-seven years of age, has for the past thirty years, since
its establishment, been president of Windsor, Mo., Bank. His
son, Lewis W. Stark, is an extensive farmer and business man,
much interested in tracing family history. Martha W. Stark of
Louisiana, Mo., the home of the great fruit growers, belong in
this line also, descendants of Judge James Stark, born in
Kentucky, 1792, migrated from New Hampshire. William
B. Stark of Conway, Ark., is another new member. The
fourteenth Annual Reunion of the Association was held Aug. 19,
1909. A family of forty-five met together at the Golden Spur
Inn, East Lyme, Conn. the day was very pleasant, following
several rainy ones, and was all that could be wished for, for
general comfort or for travel. The spirits of all seemed to be
in keeping with the day and freedom and sociability reigned.
Promptly at Twelve o'clock we all
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sat
down to a bountiful and well-prepared shore dinner. The tables
were prettily decorated with flowers. One long table extended
the length of the dining hall, with smaller tables at the side.
The hall is somewhat of a pavilion and the bounteousness of
sunshine and air gave us added zest.
After
dinner the business meeting was called. the reports of the
various officers were read and accepted by the members. The
deficit in the treasury was met by voluntary contribution. The
Historian presented an outline of the the family history, and
reported about one thousand names added during the past year to
his already extensive genealogical compilation. Letters of
regret were noted from members of the family in California,
Illinois, Iowa and many States nearer. The officers of the past
year were re-elected. Following was a brief discussion as to the
advisability of meeting next year in Mystic. The matter was left
with the executive committee, and the meeting adjourned.
There
were several with us who had not attended the reunion before. a
good number joined the Association, and at the close of the day
sixty were enrolled as members for the coming year.
Mr.
James R. Clark of Maunie, Ill., notes a peculiar coincidence,
namely: that the Stark Family Association of Connecticut held
its "fourteenth Annual Reunion" at East Lyme, Conn.
Aug. 19, 1909: that the
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Stark
Family Association of Pennsylvania held its "fourteenth
Annual Reunion" at East Lemon, Pa., Aug. 14, 1909, and that
the Fancher Family association (all of whom are Stark
Descendants), held their "Fourteenth Annual Reunion"
near Columbus, Ohio, Oct. 1, 1909. At the reunion of the last
named Association he was present in the capacity of Historian.
These several related associations organized the same season
without any personal knowledge of each other.
Report
of the Treasurer
1908-1909
Balance
in treasury Aug. 19.............. $1.67
Receivedfrom
membership fees......... 41.00
Received
for two halftone cuts............ 4.00
¾¾¾ $46.67
Paid
for stationary & postage.......... $1.25
Paid
for printing 125 reports...............34.30
Paid
for two halftone cuts................. 4.00
Paid
for one map..........................
3.00
Paid
for printing 150 reunion invitations.1.75
¾¾¾ $51.73
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Deficit
..........................................
$5.06
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Report
of the Historian

IT
is a difficult task for the Historian to present something fresh
and crisp at each annual gathering and have it pass muster as
history. It is comparatively easy to draw on fancy and to weave
a fabric pleasing to the senses, but having little relation to
the facts. I have thought it better to-day to present to you an
outline of our family history, hoping that those present may be
stimulated to aid in filling the vacant spaces, and that many
not present may be moved to "go and do likewise." The
most important thing lacking at the present time for our family
history is a starting point. At present it is the aim of the
most ambitious antiquarians (?) to trace back to the
"Mayflower," and it is a worthy ambition. But
comparatively few of our Connecticut families go back to
Plymouth. Connecticut was principally settled by colonists from
the Bay, and it is well for us to keep clearly in mind the
distinction between Pilgrims and Puritans. Even as well informed
a historian as our ex-President Roosevelt mixed the two classes
in his speech at Provincetown, and , I fear, perpetuated the
misunderstandings which always have existed between the Dutch
and English. The settlers of Massachusetts
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Bay
are said by one historian to have been the most remarkable body
of men that ever came to this country at one period. Of the
eight hundred who came with Gov. Winthrop, or at about the same
time, ninety or more were university men, men of keen intellect,
men of affairs, men who were urged to remain in England. They
differed from the Pilgrims in that they were not exiles for
their religious opinions: they had not cut loose entirely from
the Established Church, but, as their name implies, they sought
to purity it from the abuses which had crept in, abuses of form
and ceremony. England at this time was divided into three
classes or parties, the Established or High Church, the Puritans
or Low Church, and they the element represented by the Pilgrims,
which cut loose from the Church altogether and sought to
establish a new church on what they considered a Scriptural
basis. The Pilgrims came primarily on religious grounds: the Puritans
came as a business venture, bringing their religion with them,
as any good business men should. Circumstances changed the
character of the puritans. The difficulties of government of a
new state surrounded by hostile neighbors and receiving constant
additions of adventurers from aboard, called for the greatest
wisdom, and this was naturally looked for among the educated
members of the community, who were also the religious leaders.
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degree
of intolerance as great or greater than ever had prevailed in Old
England. Soon after the settlement of Boston and the surrounding
towns differences of opinion led to separation, and the mild and
gentle Hooker led his congregation through the wilderness to
Hartford and began the settlement of this good State.
Soon
after the settlement came the life and death struggle with the Pequot's,
and in the little army of John Mason we first find Aaron Stark.
Whether he had already settled in Connecticut or whether he was
one of the twenty men who served with Underhill has not yet been
proved.* The late Benjamin Stark of New London believed
that he came into Connecticut about the same time as Thomas
Miner, as the first knowledge we have of him is as Thomas
Miner's neighbor in Stonington.** He was apparently a religious
man, as Miner's diary speaks of services being held at his house
before the First Congregational Church was formed in Stonington.
That he was a man of means*** is indicated by the fact that he
purchased the farm of Thompson, the Indiana missionary, which
was located on Stark's Hill, in what was then New London, our
our present Groton. As to his religious belief, we know nothing:
but his son William was a Baptist and in his house was organized
the first Baptist Church in Connecticut. He gave the land on
which their first meeting house was built, and also gave the
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*Editor's
Comment: Later research has revealed Aaron was not one of
the twenty men who served with Underhill. Click HERE
to see the latest on this issue.
**Editor's
Comment: At the time Aaron became Miner's neighbor he was in
servitude to John Mason, overseeing John Mason's land grant.
Click HERE
to review.
***Editor's
Comment: While living on Mason's land grant, Aaron was not a
man of means. The Thompson Property (purchased in 1664) had been
sold by the Connecticut Court to pay off Thompson's debt of 29£
before he moved to Virginia. Aaron may have received assistance
from John Mason to make the purchase of about 29£. Click HERE
for more information.
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location
and built a house for Valentine Wightman, the pastor of the
church. His brother, John, lived in New London, and at one time
was lessee of the old Winthrop mill; and I believe that he was
buried in the ground adjoining the old Pepper Box Church, which
was the first Baptist Church in that part of New London which is
now the town of Waterford, having probably been a deacon in this
church. John Stark is known to have had but two daughters, and
no effort has been made to follow their line beyond the first
generation, and, in fact, this rule is followed throughout.*
The
male line of Aaron Stark, Jr., has been traced, and also that of
William.
Aaron
Stark, 2nd (son of Aaron Stark, Jr.), moved to New Jersey, where
May 29, 1744, he was residing in Roxbury, Morris County. From
him there sprung numerous progeny, several of whom have been
traced. His descendants are many of them in the West. His
brothers, Stephen, John, and Abiel, have been traced. Silas, a
son of the latter, having married Jerusha (Perkins) Hyde, of
whose descendants we have a good line. the late descendants of
Stephen are not fully accounted for: it is believed that he was
the grandfather of Capt. Dudley Stark**, who was lost in the ship
"John Minturn" in the forties. Capt. Stark was the
father of Mrs. D. D. Mallory of Mystic. William Stark's line has
also been traced through his
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*Editor's
Comment: The mentioned John Stark (son of Aaron Stark, Sr.)
died before July 9, 1690 ¾
before the 1st Baptist Church in Connecticut was organized by
William Stark in 1704. The John Stark of Pepper Box Church
(organized at a much later date) was a nephew of this John and a
son of Aaron Stark, Jr. Click HERE
for more information on John Stark, son of Aaron Stark, Sr.
Click HERE
for more information on John Stark of Pepper Box Church. Look
under notes for years 1739-1746. Charles R. Stark corrected the
above in his 1927 publication (ASF, pages 9 & 10).
**Source:
Aaron Stark Family, Seven Generations, by Charles R. Stark,
published 1927, page 87. Captain Dudley Stark followed the sea
from his early youth, and at the time of his death was in
command of the packet ship "John Minturn," bound from
New Orleans to New York. On approaching Sandy Hook he was
boarded by a pilot to whom he observed that as the weather was
threatening he thought it best to wear ship and stand off shore.
The pilot, however, thought they could make the Hook before the
storm should break, but they were overtaken by a fierce blizzard
and the ship was driven on to Squam Beach and nearly the whole
ship's company perished. Captain Stark, his wife and two
children, his mate, John Leeds, husband of Emily Stark, were
among the lost. The pilot's memory is perpetuated by the pilot's
monument in Greenwood Cemetery, Brooklyn, N. Y.
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son,
Christopher, who migrated to Duchess
County, New York, about 1750, from whom comes S. Judson Stark,
who has done so much in the line of Stark family history; also
the large Pennsylvania connections. A daughter, Elizabeth,
married Samuel Treat. Through William, Jr., comes the line of
Moses, who moved into New Hampshire and who has been the
unconscious cause of much mixture of our family with that of
Gen. John Stark of that same State. Also in this line comes
Zephaniah, whose descendant are widely scattered through
Michigan, having gone into that State after a residence in Nova
Scotia. another son, William, was the progenitor of the late
Hon. Benjamin Stark of New London. and so we could go on
spreading out indefinitely.
Now
as to the origin of the family. A late correspondence with John
D. Stark of Baker City, Ore., brings to light the statement that
his father, James Stark, came to America in 1844 from Shepton
Mallet, England. he was one of a large family, having brothers, Aaron,
John, William and others. To my knowledge this is the first clue
of similarity of names with the family on the other side of the
water. I have also had some very interesting correspondence with
Lewis W. Stark, of Windsor, Mo., who claims to be
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investigating
the origin of the family aboard. He is perfectly familiar with
the reputed origin of the name having been given to one of the
Muirhead family, but says that the word "Stark" is of
much older origin; that the German work "Stark" was in
the old Muirhead coat of arms as a motto and came with him when
he came from Germany. he says that he wore three acorns on his
breast in war, another emblem of the same word "Stark"
or strength. He also says that Robert Bruce gave the chevron,
which signified upright dealing or square dealing with all
mankind; the specks in it, drops of blood, signifying life blood
shed for country. King James II, of Scotland gave the name John
Stark to one of the Muirheads for his bravery, giving him a
bull's head with dexter arm grasping it, and that one Stark,
Bishop of Glasgow, for his defense of the Church, Civil and
State Law, was given a twisted scroll, signifying Church, Civil
and State law, in his coat of arms.
We
have the material in hand for a good-sized volume, if sufficient
interest should be manifested in its publication.
Mr.
Harold M. Stark advises me that he has nearly ready for the
press the Stark Family History of the New Hampshire and Virginia
branches, and asks the co-operation of our Association in
publishing this material. Up to date no connection has been
positively proved between those families and our own.*
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*Editors
Comment: Contrary to the beliefs
of these early researchers, the Stark
Family Y-DNA Project has clearly verified the descendants of
Aaron Stark are not related to the descendants of the New
Hampshire and Virginia families; and these test have further
suggested there is a measure of relatedness of the New Hampshire
families to the Virginia families. To see an analysis of those
participants in the Project who are descendants of Aaron Stark
[1608-1685], click HERE.
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Died
in New London, aug. 16, 1908, Elizabeth Frances Stark, daughter
of Frances and the late Richard R. Stark, aged forty-one years,
lacking six days; a niece of the late Hon. Benjamin Stark.
Charles
Gager Stark died at Poland Springs, Me., Sept. 20, 1908. He was
the seventh son of Rev. Jedediah and Hannah (Gager) Stark, beign
born at Brattleboro, Vt., May 22, 1835. As a boy of nineteen he
went to Milwaukee, engaging in the carpet business, in which he
continued until 1903, passing through the various grades of
clerk, partner and corporation president, building up a large
and successful business. Mr. Stark will be missed in many
circles, which his genial presence had adorned. He was
intimately identified with much of the finer social life
of the city. Of a commanding figure and gracious, kindly
manners, with a polish belonging to the "old school,"
he was a man to attract notice in any company, and the genuineness
of his qualities place him in the rare class of those who
improve upon acquaintance. without narrowness of sympathy, he
was an energetic believer of the Old Settlers' Club and of the
Sons of the American Revolution and other patriotic societies.
He was identified with the beginnings of the Milwaukee
merchants' Association and the Milwaukee Industrial Exposition.
At the time of his death he was a director
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of
the Northwestern Mutual Life Insurance Company and interested in
other enterprises which have grown with the growth of Milwaukee,
and helped to promote that growth. In 1898, as a memorial of his
brother Edward, Mr. Stark established the manual training school
at the Protestant Orphan Asylum. He was a prominent member of
Plymouth Congregational Church. He is survived by a widow and
one brother, Joshua Stark. A full account of his life appeared
in the annual report of 1905.
Dr
Gillis Stark*, a leading physician and a great-great-grandson of
Gen. John Stark of Revolutionary fame, died suddenly at his home
in Manchester, N. H., Dec. 13, 1908, of apoplexy, aged
forty-three years. He was stricken at 5: 30 and died shortly
before 8 o'clock. Dr. Stark was born in Manchester, the son of
Fredrick G. and Anna B. (Hutchinson) Stark. He received his
education in the local schools and at the Dartmouth Medical
College, graduating from the latter institution in 1889. Dr.
Stark for two years represented Ward 8 in the Board of Mayor and
Aldermen. In 1893 he married Miss Gertrude M. Hall of Windham,
Me., who survives him.
Died
in Mystic, Conn., Saturday, April 3, 1909, Mrs. Mary Elizabeth
(Rathbun) Stark*, widow of Capt. Henry Sanford Stark. Mrs..
Stark was born in Mystic Feb. 9, 1826, the tenth in a family of
twelve
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*Lineage: John
Muirhead/Stark1; John2; William3;
William4; John5; John6; John7;
Archibald8; Major General John Stark9;
John Stark10 who married Mary Huse; Albert Gallatin
Stark11; Frederick Gallatin
Stark12 m. Betsy Ann Hutchinson; Gillis Stark13.
**Editor's
Comment: Was the mother of
Charles Rathbone Stark, the 1909 Historian and author of this
article.
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children
of Deacon Elisha and Lucretia (Packer) Rathbun. Converted at the
early age of thirteen, she united with what was then the Second
Baptist Church in Groton, in 1839, and continued a member of
that church and the Union Baptist Church, its successor, for
over seventy years. She was actively engaged in all church work,
being a regular attendant upon the Sunday services and
interested in its other activities until her advancing
years forbade. Aug. 10, 1843, she was married to Capt. Henry
Sanford Stark, who died Oct. 29, 1857. A considerable portion of
her married life was spent at sea with her husband, she having
made a number of trips to the South, her last voyage with him
being around Cape Horn to San Francisco and the Sandwich
Islands. Four children were born to them, viz., Elizabeth Frink,
Charles Rathbone, Sanford and Simeon Ashbey; the latter died in
infancy, the other three survive her. Her daughter and younger
son residing in the West, she divided her time between the members
of her family, and thus became quite a traveler, making frequent
journeys to the West, something in which she delighted, and
followed to within a year or two of her death. She was of a
cheerful, sunny disposition and had a host of friends in all
walks of life.
Died
in Alton, Ill., Saturday, Aug. 10, 1909, John Frederick
Randall*,
aged seventy years. Mr. Randall
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*Editor's
Comment: Was the brother-in-law of Charles Rathbone Stark,
the 1909 Historian and author of this article.
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was
the son of Isaac and Adelia (Miner) Randall and was born in
Mystic April 13, 1839. After passing through the public schools
he fitted for college at Suffield, entering Yale in the class of
1864. while pursuing his studies there he heard the call of his
country and enlisted Aug. 7, 1862, and was made Second
Lieutenant of Company C, Twenty-first Connecticut Volunteers.
being later promoted to First Lieutenant. After the death of his
brother, Capt. Jed Randall of Company K, Twenty-sixth
Connecticut Volunteers, from wounds received at Port Hudson, he
resigned from the army to assist in his father's business. After
the close of the war he for a time engaged in business in the
South, but finally settled in St. Louis, where he associated
himself with Martin Collins in the insurance business, in which
he continued over forty-five years, being at the time of his
death one of the oldest insurance agents in that city. Mr.
Randall united with the Second Baptist Church in St. Louis, and
again to the Baptist Church in Alton, of which church he was one
of the deacons at the time of his death, for many years
superintendent of the Sunday School and chairman of the music
committee. he was a trustee of Shurtleff College and had served
on the school board in Alton for several terms. His strict
integrity, high moral principle, cultured
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genial
nature and his broad Christian charity made him extremely
popular in all circles in which he moved and his loss is deeply
felt in his family, in the church and community and by his
business associates. He was a member of the Loyal Legion, Sons
of the American Revolution, Society of Colonial Wars and of the
G. A. R. A detachment of Ransom Post, St. Louis, conducted the
burial service in Alton. He left a widow, Mrs. Elizabeth Frink
(Stark) Randall*, and two daughters, Adelia Miner and Julia
Davenport, his oldest child, Mary Stark, having died in
childhood.
Selden
Stark Wightman** passed peacefully away June 25, 1909, at his
residence in Norwich, Conn. He was born in Bozrah, Conn., his
parents being Deacon Charles and Prudence (Stark) Wightman. At
the age of eighteen he joined the Baptist Church at Scott Hill.
Dec. 16, 1857, he married Miss Prudence Allyn, who survived him
but five weeks, her death occurring Aug. 2, 1909. Mr. Wightman
was a well-known farmer in Bozrah until 1888, when he removed to
Norwich. He is survived by four children, two sons and two
daughters, viz., Byron A. Wightman of Norwich, Elijah S. Wightman
of Schenectady, N. Y., Mrs. William S. Geer of Norwich and Mrs. Arthur
C. Fuller of New London. He also leaves four grandchildren and
two great grandchildren. He was a man of sterling worth, a true
friend, a kind and affectionate husband and father. His cheerfulness,
his patience, his Christian fortitude and his abiding trust in
God during his long and tedious illness endeared him to his many
friends.
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*Editor's
Comment: Was the sister of Charles Rathbone Stark, the 1909
Historian and author of this article.
**Lineage:
Aaron1;
William2; William3; Daniel4;
Zophar5; Prudence Stark6 married Deacon
Charles Wightman; Selden Stark Wightman7.
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William
Ledyard Stark
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William
Ledyard Stark
William
Ledyard Stark, Fusionist of Aurora, Neb., was born in Mystic,
Conn., July 29, 1853; graduated from Mystic Valley Institute at
Mystic, Conn., in 1872; afterwards went to Wyoming, Stark
County, Ill.; taught school and clerked in a store; attended the
Union College of Law, Chicago, Ill., for eighteen months, during
which time he was connected with the office of the late G. Gilbert
Gibbons; was admitted to the bar by the Supreme Court of
Illinois in January, 1878; removed to Aurora, Neb., in February,
1878; was superintendent of the city schools for nearly two
years; Deputy District Attorney for two years; appointed once
and elected five times Judge of the County Court of Hamilton
County, Neb; declined a sixth nomination for that office in
1890; served as Major and Judge Advocate General of the Nebraska
National Guard; was elected to the Fifty-fifth and Fifty-sixth
Congresses, and re-elected to the Fifty-seventh Congress, being
the candidate of the People's Independent Democratic and Silver
Republican parties.
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*Lineage:
Aaron1;
William2; William3; Daniel4;
Daniel5; Sanford6; Albert7;
William Ledyard Stark8 married Ida Gertrude Ellsworth.
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Reminiscences
(by)
William Ledyard Stark
It
was my good fortune to be born a Stark, and at Mystic, Conn., on
July 29, 1853. As far back as I can remember I was a regular
attendant at the Union Baptist Church, and, being perhaps of an
uneasy disposition, I was as watchful of the tithing men as I
was of the sermon.
I
used to go sailing, rock weeding and clamming at every
opportunity, and had many startling adventures. I can recall an incident
where Mr. Jesse D. Crary, now of Mystic and New York, and myself
were partners in securing a load of kelp, but our avarice and
greed were so great that we overloaded the scow and sunk her.
Our mutual pains and troubles in raising that coaster taught us
a most salutary lesson, not to overdo things.
I
well remember Ann Augusta Murphy, Thomas H. Packer, Deacon
William Potter and John K. Bucklyn, all of blessed memory, who
were each charged as a public duty to educate and assist in my
development, and after a few attempts of the gentle and
persuasive sort they put me in the "Lickin' and Larnin'"
class. After years of mature reflection, it is my judgment they
made no mistake.
In
the Good old New England environment, I finally reached the age
of Twenty years, and while I have been
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told
that it was narrow, near and bigoted, yet I now declare that
after a good deal of worldly wise experience, I know of no place
better to bring out what is really in a boy and lay the sure
foundation of character than in the surroundings of New England.
For after all, being true to a high purpose and having courage
to live up to your ideals makes the man who stands for something
and is of real use to his fellows in this life.
When
about twenty years old, I contracted what the Germans call a
severe and aggravated case of "wanderlust" and I
started West in search of adventure. The first port I made was
Wyoming, Ill., where I clerked in a store for my cousins, Mr
Charles R. Stark of Providence, R. I., and Mr. Sanford Stark,
now of Scottsbluff, Neb. With some money I had saved and some
financial assistance furnished me by my Grandmother Stark, I
attended the Union College of Law at Chicago, and was admitted
to the bar of Illinois Jan. 2, 1878.
In
February, 1878, I found myself in Hamilton County, Neb., at
which time I made a recovery from the "wonderlust" and
put myself to the task of being a permanent citizen. In Looking
back, it seems plain that that resolution must have been reached
by the confidence of youth and not by any logical process, for
here was a prairie country probably there is no better
agricultural county in the United States sixteen hundred
miles
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from
home folks, not a relative in the State and no capital. How
could my knowledge of fishing, kelping and rock weeding be put
to practical use here? In my youth I was a "fancy"
stone picker as means to go to the circus and other diversions.
Here not a stone to be found in the whole county as big as a
clam shell. Never had hold of a plow handle, never bound a
stanchion, fed cattle, nor did chores. My sole capital was good
health, good cheer and a desire to do something. At that time I
gave another hostage to fortune. I go married to a wonderful
nice woman of good old Connecticut and Vermont stock who had
just arrived "at the front" from Malone, N. Y., fresh
from her studies at the academy, who was an organist and solo
alto at the Baptist Church of that place. For our wedding tour
we went to the railroad, which was twenty-four miles away, had
dinner at the principal hotel ¾ started
in the morning, got back the same evening. The daily balance
showed, cash available, $7.50 after paying for the license, the
parson, and the honeymoon trip.
Babes
in the Woods had mild adventures alongside of some that befell
us. Not a railroad in the county, sparsely settled, genuine
frontier except that the Indians had departed. It was a great
tryout. Those at the front must be neighborly and have courage.
A man's word must be kept good. It must be as good as
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his
bond or the community will throw him down and put him out. it
takes a whole lot of the primitive man to make good. Many of the
best people in the world are at the front ¾ and
many floaters.
So
the years went on full of effort, full of cares, holding to the
task, never looking back. And now we live at the county seat, a
division point on the Burlington Route, in a good home, modern
in every respect, city water, city sewage, electric lights, day
and night service, telephone, and the gray-uniformed messenger
of Uncle Sam delivers and gathers the mail twice a day. Instead
of the farm wagon, wife and I get out occasionally and spin
along the level, easy roads and to the wave of the had of the
kindly friend answer with a blast of the Gabriel's horn as we go
to the neighboring county to see our son and wife and our little
man, our only grandchild*.
It
would be weariness to tell you of our bumps and bruises, our
fall-downs and get-ups. Maybe it is sufficient to tell you all
about the stark and the finish. We get through some way. I don't
know jus how, unless it be that blood tells.
In
conclusion let me say that I wish all of the Stark kin, near and
remote, the good things of this life, suggesting that good
service, clear thinking and right living are the best means that
I know of to a useful life and an honored name.
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*Editor's
Comment: William's daughter, Hannah, died in 1901 due to an appendicitis
attack. His son, Lucien Stark, had a son named Harold Ledyard
Stark, born in 1908, the only grandchild of William.
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James
R. Clark
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James
R. Clark
JAMES
R. CLARK of Maunie, White County, Ill., was born in Harlem Tp.,
Delaware County, Ohio. His mother's people (parents), William
Fancher and wife, Lucy Stark, and their family imgrated from
near Wilkes-Barre, Luzerne County, Pa., and settled within the
limits of what later became Harlem Tp., in the fall of 1807,
being the second white family to settle among the Indians within
the limits of that township, Benjamin Cook and wife, Cassandra
Fanning, and family of Groton, Conn., being the first, having
preceded the Fancher family in the spring of the same year.
Mr.
Clark's father's people (parents), Elijah Clark and wife, Mary
Stark (sister of Lucy), and their family, also from near
Wilkes-Barre, Luzerne County, settled in the same township in
1817. Mr. Clark's parents and family removed from Harlem Tp., to
Westerville, Ohio in 1854, which, with the exception of eight
years residence near New Plymouth, Ohio, was the home of himself
and family until the settlement in his present home in 1890.
Mr.
Clark's grandfather, William Fancher, and his
great-grandfathers, ¾¾¾
Clark and William Stark, were soldiers in
the Revolutionary War. In the Civil
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War,
Mr. Clark was a member of Company I, Third Regiment, Ohio
National Guard, which was reorganized as Company C, One hundred
and Thirty-third Regiment, Ohio Volunteer Infantry.
In
his collegiate instruction he was a member of the class of 1866
of Otterbein University, Westerville, Ohio, in the scientific
course. it was his purpose originally to make teaching his
lifework, but ill-health induced by confinement in the
schoolroom wrought a change of plans. Various occupations were
followed for a few years, until his final settlement on a farm,
where he and his only children, two sons, Rollo S. and Walter
I., are engaged in grain and stock farming under the firm name
of "J. R. Clark & Sons."
Politically,
Mr. Clark acknowledges no party allegiance: this means that he
has never been an office seeker, and, barring a few miner
offices, such as Mayor, member of the School Board, etc., of Westerville,
has never held public office. In the affairs of church, he is a
firm believer in a practical Christianity of the Golden Rule
type, and of churches as well, but has little respect for mere
sectarianism.
Mr.
Clark's record: The "Clark, Fancher and Stark
Genealogy," composed mostly of Stark descendants, through
the Clark, Fancher, leading Stark, and some other allied family
lines, is nearly completed, and when done will contain about 600
to 700 octavo pages.
Genealogy:
Aaron1, William2, Christopher3,
William4, Mary5, married Elisha Clark:
Lucy5, married William Fancher: Isaac Clark6,
married Amy Fancher6: James R. Clark7.
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Father's
Lineage: Aaron1, William2, Christopher3,
William4, Mary5, married Elisha Clark,
Isaac Clark6 married cousin, Amy Fancher.
Mother's
Lineage: Aaron1, William2, Christopher3,
William4, Lucy5, married William Fancher,
Amy Fancher6 married cousin, Isaac Clark.
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Thomas
Benton Kelley
Thomas
Benton Kelley was born in Castleton, Vt., Oct. 10, 1838, the
youngest son of David Kelly of Danby, Vt., and Zanna Dixon
Jones. His mother, the eldest daughter of Ephraim Jones and
Rachel Stark, was the granddaughter of Capt. John Stark, who
commanded the Paulet Company in the battle of Bennington, Vt.
When Thomas Kelley was seven years of age the family moved to Du
Page County, Illinois, and located twenty miles west of Chicago,
on the Old Galena Stage road. Here his father established a post
office, naming it Langdon. This he continued until the old
Galena and Chicago Union Railroad was put through, some two
miles away, when he moved the post office to a place named
Newton and renamed the post office Danby in honor of his old
birth place. This is now Glen Ellyn, Ill. Here the boy gained
skill and accuracy in sorting the mails and efficiency in deciphering
the many foreign letters, and after the second year he made out
all the reports at the railroad station, where the office then
was. In the spring of 1853, at about the age of fifteen, he went
to Chicago and entered the printing office of Hon. John Wentworth,
keeping the books and supervising the making up of the morning
mail of the Chicago Daily Democrat. Here he remained two years
or until the building of
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Thomas
Benton Kelley
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Wheaton
College, when he was called home to enter, his father having
purchased two scholarships there. he attended college until October,
1856. From this time he was regular station and express agent at
the home station till he tendered his resignation, entering the
service of his country in September, 1861, in the Eighth
Regiment, Illinois Cavalry, where service was rendered for three
years in the Army of the Potomac. He had the privilege of
listening to the great joint debate between Douglas and Lincoln
in 1858. After hearing the question discussed three times he
decided the matter for himself, and in 1860 joined a company of
"Wide Awakes," was elected First Lieutenant, and stood
in the "Old Wigwam" in Chicago when Lincoln received
the nomination. He was married to Mary Amelia Kelley, eldest
daughter of Smith F. Kelley and Seviah Round, Feb. 14, 1860, at
their home in Rutland, Vt., having a month's leave from duties
as agent at Danby, Ill. Their first son was eight and a half
months old when Mr. Kelley left for the seat of war. he never
saw this son again, as he passed away the the day before the
battle of Antietam, in which fearful slaughter Mr. Kelley was
engaged. Mr. Kelly in an account of leaving for the army says:
"Being the youngest son and the only one at home, it was a
struggle for my dear mother to give me up, and she could not
keep the tears from coursing her cheeks, but taking my hand in
her own, said in a firm, unfaltering voice,
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'Go,
my son, and God bless you. Do not forget the Stark blood flows
in your veins'." The he adds: "That health and
strength, with the guiding hand of an all wise Power, was ever
shielding me in those trying days. I never doubted in the least.
And I had the blessed privilege of knowing that my own dear
mother had to her very last moment on this earth everything she
desired, as her last eleven years were enjoyably passed under my
own roof in the beautiful city of Rutland, Vt., she gently
passing away in the room of her own choice at the advanced age
of eight-seven years, with every faculty of thought and
expression allotted to her to the very last breath." His
diary bears the record of service in eighty-two engagements and
skirmishes, losing five horses shot under him and being struck
four times by lead and three times by saber during the service.
On Sept. 15, 1862, he captured five Confederate soldiers alone
outside our Union lines nearly three-fourths of a mile away, and
on his way back to the lines he captured two more, one which was
mounted (Fourth Virginia Cavalry), making seven in all. He is
denied a medal, though he has some twenty affidavits on file in
the War Department in Washington, D. C., because there was not a
shot fired. During the winter of '63 and '64 he was detailed at
Division Headquarters if Gen. W. M. Meritt, under the commissary
of musters of the First Cavalry Division,
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Army
of the Potomac, having charge of the entire detail of seven
clerks.
Since
the war he has lived mostly in Vermont. For sixteen years he was
foreman and millwright for the Rutland Marble Co. of West
Rutland. For six years he was mill foreman for Struthers &
sons of Philadelphia, in construction of public buildings in
that city. he was in the United States Mail Service nearly eight
years under Harrison and McKinley. All his life he has been a
Republican, and enjoyed a mechanical line of work, and in that
way, he says, "have gained a fair renumeration, so that my
family have come to adult age with a practical knowledge of the
best instruction necessary to enjoyable citizenship in this
great land."
Dec.
2, 1867, he joined the G. A. R. as a charter member of Roberts
Post, No. 14, Department of Vermont. He served as Chaplain seven
years, besides holding other responsible positions, taking great
interest in the Order and never missing a single post meeting
for nearly twenty years, composing and writing over forty G. a.
R. songs, besides songs and stories for Spanish war comrades.
Since the death of his wife in '94 he has been residing with his
eldest daughter, Mrs. John Rolley of Boston. She has a daughter
and one son. Mrs. George A. Brigham of Pittsfield, Vt., who has
two sons, aged twelve and fourteen years, respectively, is
another daughter of Mr. Kelley. Some
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twelve
years since he joined the Vermont Division of G. A. R. He is now
Custodian of the Vermont Association of Boston, located at Hotel
Westminster, Copley Square.
Genealogy:
Aaron1, William2, William3,
John4, Rachel Stark Jones5, Zanna Dixon
Jones Kelley6, Thomas Benton Kelley7.
Our
Historian says: "Capt. John Stark (William, William,
Aaron), born 1742-9 (?)*. He probably migrated to Nova Scotia
with his brothers Zephaniah and Obadiah prior to or about 1760,
and after the death of Zephaniah, between 1766 and 1773, he and
his brother Obadiah returned to their native country and settled
in Vermont. John taking part with the colonists in their
struggle for independence. He was a captain in the Vermont
Militia. As this company was called out several times, doubtless
it took part in the battle of Bennington. In this same company
was a 'Private' John Stark, but neither this captain or private
was related to General John Stark, who made his name famous upon
that day. He married Eunice Adams in Canterbury, Conn., April
16, 1764. He died about Sept. 26, 1806, in South Hero, Vt. he
was judge of Bennington County Court, Rutlandshire, 1778-1779.
¾¾¾
*Editor's
Comment: Captain John Stark was born between 1722 and 1729
as recorded in a 1743 "Choice of Guardian" hearing
before the courts. His father, William Stark (Junior) was
deceased by 1736. For more on Captain John Stark, click HERE.
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Benjamin
Graves Allen
BENJAMIN
GRAVES ALLEN, the subject of this sketch, was the son of Elihu
and Mary Ann (nee Graves) Allen, and was born in Utica Oneida
County, New York, on the 21st day of April, 1849, his mother
being the daughter of Benjamin and Mary (nee Stark) Graves. At a
very early age he moved to California with his parents, and was
educated in Santa Clara County, Cal., and commenced life by
working on a farm, and later getting employment in a general
merchandise store, where he learned merchandising in all its
detail, and for more than twenty years he owned and conducted a
general merchandise store in California, and later moved with
his family to Honolulu, Hawaii, where he was engaged in business
for several years, finally moving lavk to California, where he
became one of the founders of the Palo Alto hardware Co., of
Palo alto, Cal., and since its organization has been its
Secretary and Treasurer. In politics he is a staunch Republican
and is an enthusiastic member of the Odd Fellows and Masonic
fraternities, and for more than thirty years has held membership
in Garden City Lodge, No. 142, I. O. O. F., and has enjoyed all
the honors that could be conferred by the subordinate lodge, and
has also held membership in San Jose Encampment, No. 34, I. O.
O. F.,
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Benjamin
Graves Allen
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for
the same length of time. In 1871 he was married to Miss Hattie
A. Ables of San Jose, Cal., who is a native daughter of
California, and they have two grown sons, Edgar Elihu and
William Benjamin. The latter was married to Winefred A. Jefferys,
and they have two children, Lloyd, aged 6, and Edith Winefred,
aged three years.
Mr.
and Mrs. Allen are members of the Episcopal Church, and both
have an abiding faith in the great future of California, and in
the great Santa Clara Valley, amid its sunshine and flowers,
they expect to pass the rest of their lives.
Genealogy:
Aaron1; Aaron2, Abial3, nathan4,
Mary Stark5, Mary Stark5, married Benj.
Graves: Mary Ann Graves6, married Elihu Allen:
Benjamin Graves Allen7.
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Members
of the Association
1909-1910
| William B. Stark |
Conway, Ark. |
| Benjamin G. Allen |
Palo Alto, Cal. |
| Mrs. B. G. Allen |
Palo Alto, Cal. |
| Nathan G. Stark |
42 Williams St., New London,
Conn. |
| Mrs. Ellen Moore Stark |
42 Williams St., New London,
Conn. |
| Mrs. Della Stark Sisson |
North Plains, Conn. |
| Moreau J. Stark |
North Plains, Conn. |
| Emily Jewett Stark |
North Plains, Conn. |
| Mrs. Mary Stark Strong |
North Plain, Conn. |
| Mrs. Harriet C. Avery |
Norwich Town, Conn. |
| Sidney E. Ackley |
Chester, Conn. |
| Mrs. Hattie Stark Ackley |
Chester, Conn. |
| Laureston M. Stark |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Mrs. Mary Dickinson Stark |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Ida Dickinson Stark |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Edward D. Newbury |
Moodus, Conn. |
| Mrs. Carrie E. Newbury |
Moodus, Conn. |
| Mary Fanny Clark |
Colchester, Conn. |
| Mary Stark Clark |
Colchester, Conn. |
| Charles F. Geer |
Norwichtown, Conn. |
| Charles Stark |
North Lyme, Conn. |
| Mrs. Julia Richmond Stark |
North Lyme, Conn. |
| Mrs. Mary Williams Fenn |
Meriden, Conn. |
| Elwood D. Lathrop |
26 Pearl St., Mystic, Conn. |
| Mrs. Elwood D. Lathrop |
26 Pearl St., Mystic, Conn. |
| Hattie E. Stark |
Central Village, Conn. |
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| William H. Geer |
R. F. D. No. 1, Yantic, Conn. |
| Mrs. Martha Allyn Geer |
Yantic, Conn. |
| Henry A. Ely |
Cromwell, Conn. |
| Ellen P. Ely |
Cromwell, Conn. |
| Charles S. Jewett |
North Lyme, Conn. |
| Mrs. Katie Fosdick Jewett |
North Lyme, Conn. |
| John F. Luce |
Niantic, Conn. |
| Mrs. Laura R. S. Luce |
Niantic, Conn. |
| Warren S. Abel |
211 Sumner St., Stamford,
Conn. |
| Dea. Abial Stark |
North Plain, Conn. |
| Mrs. Arlington Smith |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Mrs. Carrie Stark Holbrook |
Yantic, Conn. |
| Mrs. Annie Borrows Pendleton |
Stonington, Conn. |
| May Louise Pendleton |
Stonington, Conn. |
| Charlotte Stark Wilcox |
Stonington, Conn. |
| Mrs. Anna Wetmore |
Ocean Beach, New London,
Conn. |
| Fred Stark |
Leonard Bridge, Conn. |
| Mrs. Mary E. Stark |
Leonard Bridge, Conn. |
| James L. Raymond |
North Lyme, Conn. |
| Mrs. Hester Wood Raymond |
North Lyme, Conn. |
| Mrs. W. O. Tift |
Tifton, Ga. |
| James R. Clark |
Maunie, Ill. |
| Mrs. Harriet Stebbins Clark |
Maunie, Ill. |
| Mrs. Lucetta P. Boynton |
Sycamore, Ill. |
| Mrs. J. H. Harris |
2504 N. 44th Av., Chicago,
Ill |
| Mrs. John L. Hamilton |
726 E. Penut St., Hoopestown,
Ill. |
| Harold M. Stark |
2305 S. Wayne Av., Ft. Wayne,
Ind. |
| Mrs. Annie S. Faris |
Mt. Ayr, Iowa |
| Thomas Benton Kelley |
Hotel Westminster, Boston,
Mass. |
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| Fred H. Daniels |
214 Salisbury St.,
Worchester, MA |
| Gilbert M. Stark |
700 N. Hamilton St., Saginaw,
Mich. |
| Martha W. Stark |
Louisiana, Mo. |
| Edgar W. Stark |
Louisiana, Mo. |
| Washington Stark |
Windsor, Mo. |
| Lewis W. Stark |
Windsor, Mo. |
| William L. Stark |
Aurora, Neb. |
| M. Lee Stark |
26 Stone St., New York City,
N. Y. |
| James E. Stark |
Brooklyn, N. Y. |
| Mrs. James E. Stark |
Brooklyn, N. Y. |
| Mrs. S. P. Graves |
Westmoreland, N. Y. |
| Mary E. Stark Graves |
Westmoreland, N. Y. |
| Nathan F. Graves |
Westmoreland, N. Y. |
| Mrs. May Wightman Graves |
Westmoreland, N. Y. |
| D. D. Mallory |
Jamaica, N. Y. |
| Maurice A. Graves |
Syracuse, N. Y. |
| Mrs. E. O. Perry |
Hotel Courtland, Canton,
Ohio, Ohio |
| John D. Stark |
2449 Colorado St., Baker
City, Ore. |
| Mrs. Frederick H. Jones |
Pittsburgh, Pa. |
| Jno. Bissell |
1405 Arrott Bldg.,
Pittsburgh, Pa. |
| Dexter W. Stark |
Tunkhannock, Penn. |
| Charles R. Stark |
41 Chapin Av., Providence, R.
I. |
| Mrs. Abbie Gates Stark |
41 Chapin Av., Providence, R.
I. |
| Mary Randall Stark |
41 Chapin Av., Providence, R.
I. |
| Eleanor Stark |
41 Chapin Av., Providence, R.
I. |
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| Charles R. Stark, Jr. |
43 Chapin Av., Providence, R.
I. |
| Mrs. Charles R. Stark, Jr. |
43 Chapin Av., Providence, R.
I. |
| Theron Clark |
152 Congdon St., Providence,
R. I. |
| Mrs. Annie Cocks Clark |
152 Congdon St., Providence,
R. I. |
| Mrs. W. T. Hope |
508 Vine St., Chattanooga,
Tenn. |
| James E. Stark |
Memphis, Tenn. |
| Mrs. Harriet M. Stark |
Paris, Texas |
| Mrs. Charles Gager Stark |
308 Janeau Av., Milwaukee,
Wis. |
| John G. Stark |
Randolph, Wis. |
| Mrs. John G. Stark |
Randolph, Wis. |
Members
and Friends Present
August
19, 1909
| Moreau J. Stark |
North Plain, Conn. |
| Mr. and Mrs. Charles R..
Stark |
Providence, R. I. |
| Charles F. Geer |
Norwichtown, Conn. |
| Mr. and Mrs. E. D. Newbury |
Moodus, Conn. |
| Mr. and Mrs. Nathan G. Stark |
New London, Conn. |
| Charles Stark |
North Lyme, Conn. |
| Mr. and Mrs. C. S. Jewett |
North Lyme, Conn. |
| Ellen W. Stark |
Lyme, Conn. |
| Mrs. S. E. Ackley |
Chester, Conn. |
| Ida D. Stark |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Mrs. A. D. Smith |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Susie P. Miner |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Vernie E. Smith |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Roy S. Smith |
East Haddam, Conn. |
| Mrs. Carrie Stark Holbrook |
Yantic, Conn. |
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