There is an Abram Bodine buried in the Owasco Rural Cemetery in Cayuga County, New York. He died on September 9, 1819 at age 71. That would mean he was born about 1748. This does not match this Abraham's dates, but maybe the stone has not been transcribed correctly in Owasco. This Abraham's brother John, seems to have had a son, Abraham, who died in Lodi, Seneca County, New York. That is not far from Owasco. I wonder if this isn't the Abraham Bodine who, along with Mary, had a Cornelius baptized at Raritan.